How to get what you put out…
You’ve been complimented that you’re unusually skilful, not to mention sexy and at times irresistible. Possessing qualities like these is like luck- you’re not born with it, you just have it. If you have not had the best of luck attracting the similar sort, here’s your inside on how to adjust your radar.
You frequent the Italian Bistro around the corner, at the end of the counter, the cute
guy from your building. You make eye contact, exchange a few smiles, you start playing with your hair, remembering how long it was since your last date. Automatically the sirens in your head are alarmed and you’re flirting shifts into over drive. One thing leads to another, you wake up with the scent of his after-shave and no sign of him. What went wrong? Gave into your hormones?
What should have happened? Played with your hair, saying ‘what’s for dinner?’ Assess his reaction; flatter him ‘you look like the kinda guy that knows his way round a kitchen, why you ordering out?’ Always flatter or compliment with the situation at hand. Adjust your body language; don’t let him know exactly how
attracted you are to him. After exchanging pleasantries gently brush your
hand down his arm, and rest lightly on his hand, lean slightly into him and sigh…’we should do this again’. His reaction ‘when can I call you?’ or ‘yeah … hmm how about - tomorrow around 7’.
Your at a club, your favourite song is playing, and you see this raunchy hunk, gorgeous body across the dance floor. You
guys check each other out, you start dancing. Doing some of your best moves when some drunk grabs your butt, as he thought your little show was for him. Consumed with embarrassment, you discreetly look for the guy. You see him at the bar but he ignores you. Why? Your body language, and seductive
dancing attracted just about anybody, you wanted him-the sexy guy to notice you. What do you think is going through his mind?
What should you do? Send a drink over to his table; sit a distance away, so that when he looks up to see whom it came from, you’re the first thing he notices. Confidently smile and raise your glass, and continue chatting to your girlfriends. You got a show him, you’re not afraid, you’ve dangled the bait wait for the bite and lure him in. Those days of provocative ‘touch yourself ‘ dancing is way over.
You’re in a conventional relationship, why? Because that’s the kind you attracted. In his life you play a very subservient role, keeping you less empowered - that’ll teach you to stick to conventional dating methods. Not only is he shy, he rarely pays attention to what you want. Instead of him
serving you breakfast in bed, you’re preparing
tea for his mum every Sunday.
Snap out of it, get rid of him, you will never know if the man of your dreams is out there, if your serving tea all the time. Take some risks, if guys do it, why can’t you? Think of it when you ask your boss for a promotion, you don’t get all girlie, you dress the part of the job you want, and not the one you already have. Women, who make bold moves intrigue guys, it doesn’t make you any less of a woman.
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