Love is a pretty peculiar thing as it makes a man or a woman do things they would never in a million years agree to do.
It grabs a hold of you when you least expect it and smacks you so hard round the back of your head, your actions mystify those around you and even yourself.
The Funniest thing about this so-called love is that you don’t even know when it has
infected your system and broken down your immunity and now its affect everything part of your body. You start to smile uncontrollably, your hands fidget and your heart beats irregularly when the one who infected you is close by. Yes it’s a
person who always passes this type of infection on.. .. well actually having said that some men have been known to be infected by their automobiles and some women by their leather wallets.
Fortunately, I have been infected for quite a while and as time goes by I find the symptoms increase and my resistance becomes futile but by this time you no longer want to resist and it intoxicates you totally. By this time you have been rendered incapable and your attention is focused only on the one who caused this infection, which brings me to my question, is it
possible to be in love with 2
people…? Now I didn’t
say two people which we are all capable of doing (mum and dad) I’m talking about being in love with two people, you know the kind of love I just described.
Many have long argued that this isn’t possible and the man or woman is only playing themselves but consider this if u may for a minute, meet someone, lets say on the opposite side of the world who has the same qualities as the one you are in love with, is it not possible to fall for that person also? Everyone likes to think that they are unique, but the truth is there is likely to be someone in the same city, another country or even another continent who is a uncanningly similar to you.
Does that mean falling in love is a voluntary action? A decision you make? Personally I’m sat on the fence on this issue because I’m certain that until a person finds himself or herself in this situation its all still theoretical as an old friend puts it. Lets consider for a minute, why someone who fall in love with someone else and still be in love with the first partner, is it that they were never really in love with that person in the first place, or was that person a substitute for someone the could not have as their first choice.
Many people for various reasons
feel that they need to settle down and find the one, this invariably happens when that a person is either getting older or all their fiends are ‘hooked up’ In today’s society, you are expected to be able to love and be loved. On the surface it appears to be an easy task but in order to love someone and allow yourself to be loved then you must first learn how to love your
self.. The saying has almost become a cliché, yet, on some level, many of us feel uncomfortable with this, many of us tend to put the needs of others before our own needs, we try to please and care for other first, often putting ourselves last.
In many cultures, women have been regarded for being caregivers and sometimes punished for not exhibiting those qualities, this is a clear difference and reward between selfishly loving yourself and loving yourself enough to allow someone to love you. Learning to love yourself maybe the greatest love you ever experience and achieve. Self-love is not “selfish” or bad. When you love yourself, you will feel good about your self and you feel better about the world. This will make it easier for you to give love to others.
And they do say love makes the world go around.
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