In recent years, sexual process has been divided into five phases : lust so, Xinghuanqi, hyperemia, orgasm and sexual satisfaction
than the Masters & Johnson's initial reaction cycles are drawn more attention to sexuality and sexual gratification that the two psychological hang themselves. According to statistics, the regular achieve orgasm that about 40% of women are not satisfied with their sexual relationship. Then man's subjective feelings of sexual climax? In recent years, the idea of sex researcher regarded philosophy research fields, a series of philosophical concepts, one of which is male sexual joy. Usually refers to the sexual joy is a peak experience of international exchanges, after the climax of a sexual experience in a beautiful, happy and relaxed feel. Many of the life experience is difficult to express the joy of the sexual experience as well. For example, some who have musical or artistic talents, some people have the natural expression of their sexual experience is more than delighted the capacity of ordinary people. According to their view, climax and ejaculation is not the same thing, but the other two have their own procedures. Experts in the past, including women themselves have to think about sex, female ejaculation penis not, it was not the climax; Now women understand that they can not climax, but also won several climax, the reason they have such very different men with men and even beyond the ability sexual activities because they are not concentrated in a specific organ penis, and therefore will not immediately stop the withdrawal. According to the super feeling of perspective, we can also achieve the same number of men climax, as long as they are not concentrated in the penis for sexual experience, the more important it is not necessary to climax and ejaculation confused. Experimental study found that the men's final withdrawal and the strong upsurge before, often without ejaculation repeatedly recorded an upsurge of reaction, which further demonstrates the similarity of male and female sexual response. Many male ejaculation from its description of the process to determine that they are in the genital region experienced the fun of a very tense, very strong feelings, almost with some pain. Then there was a sense of relief or a sense of release. This interpretation is consistent with the principles of Freud's theory of sexual pleasure is the same. According to this view, the release of tension in the following ways : through the physiological process of relaxing the spirit and flesh, in other words, put into a degree of tension "sexual joy." As a man in the genitals to breathe better without ejaculation plan may show such as "spastic" type of performance, and temporary loss of control, in a trance-like state, along with all forms of reaction may also fear response. Instead, the man was breathing easily gratifying sexual experience calm and never lost control, they still plenty of energy after sexual intercourse, rather than exhausted. Most of ejaculation in men, after a rest or quiet state, the penis is usually too sensitive and can not tolerate any further stimulus, therefore, the response had been very weak state. Complete physical exhaustion is a very happy moment, which is precisely what the majority of men after the end of life experience. For a man, he can mate with each other and love each other experienced sexual joy and his wife must have a very thorough understanding of our full confidence, and she has been co-operating fully. Not happy nature, which a person can do is to learn to experience it. Say clearly it is probably the best way to a happy sexual metaphor : the song recital is like a very elegant music, musical instruments division he must be a very thorough understanding of that master the necessary skills. Music division must learn how to make a "Self" disappear, at least temporarily disappeared, so music can flow unimpeded through his fingers. Make love in, the flesh is insental music is sexual joy. Must recognize the fact that the success of make love (not simply as a routine matter of sexual intercourse) took at least one hour, sometimes even longer needed. Why men do not experience a lot of sexual joy? How gratifying experience to help people develop the capacity? Let us first consider what is likely to hamper the development of the general nature of joy capacity factors, which are : 1, equate sexual climax and ejaculation in ejaculation devoted too much energy. 2, focusing too much on genital sexual polygraph, but genital completely divorced from the physical and sexual pleasure. 3., Not in the immediate circumstances ejaculation lasting maintain a strong degree of sexual tension. 4, sexual relations firm in the role of the man as active and the woman as passive role, not arouse her enthusiasm. 5, the exchange difficulties. Facts, the climax of men only concerned with their own and did not consider the demands of the other, respecting each other's feelings, this man know selfish rush into the matter soon, and then fell asleep.