When young, I thought discipline, rules,
systems are the most important values of life, I wanted to discipline my child,
my wife, even my father and mother. I was trained to be perfect by someone close to me, who really impared lifes greater values to me but I took it the wrong way, I would grumble, when things in house were not kept tidy and in place, I would fight with me father for not providing me enough dress, I had a problem with everybodys attitide and work, how people ate, laughed, sat, stood literally a-z, I had made my own set of rules and thus found every other person irritating.Because he/she did not fit into my description of perfect men.After my father's death, I
realised that I have learnt nothing, but only bad and ugly
systems, which make me 'frog in the well' .I realised and repented the golden moments I could have spent with him loving and caring, How I could have used small affectionate words, appreciation to all around me, Had I taken every individual person to be unique in behaviour.Now I have learnt to love. I have learnt that nothing works better than love and affection, may it be my family, friend, a stranger a collegue. Love draws love,small things in life matter much,Forgive and forget should be the mantra, learn to live happily with whatever you have.This abstract was checked by WhiteSmoke Solution. Learn more.