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Shut your mouth when you are angry

Book Summary by: madhuahuja    

Original Author: Madhu Ahuja
What's the reaction of an individual when he/she is extremely angry? Verbal abuses and curses, Physical abuses to self and/or
to the person he/she is angry with, destruction of property etc. Bad Anger leads to destruction of relationships. A father verbally cursed his daughter when he'd be angry over any issue because she didn't behave in a way to please him and the way he wanted to be treated (as the ruler/dictator of the home). Guess what happened to their relationship? Father's curses, betrayal and emotional abuses didn't affect his daughter at all, but she instead dettached from him completely and forever. Many of us due to our high temper simply don't understand why others did what they did, but simply express our abuses towards them. Such relationship only turns bitter over a period of time. When angry , what You Should do is: Discuss the issue. Communication resolves the misunderstandings Take a walk. Get out of your home for a few minutes to cool your mind. Cry your heart out than physically abusing anyone. Crying when angry and hurt is a great way to express yourself. Mind your tongue. Make a conscious effort to stop using abusive words and demeaning sentences which can badly hurt others. Learn to Forgive. No human is perfect. Learn to adjust than constantly being angry and dissatisfied with others.
Published: December 29, 2006
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