Deserve to be married?A logical end to love is universally accepted phenomenon that is marriage. This is the most
legitimate, accepted association, accepted worldwide since human race existed, as understood.Is marriage an end or a mean to love?If it was an end, then, the goal is short term. May be one finds –a route to find many short-term goals on attaining short-term goal, which is of marriage. And this is how-the life goes on. And very meaningfully, living in present.Aspiring for happiness in all micro moments of life is natural. Then marriage is probably one tool and may be serving limited. All micro moments mean-satisfaction of entire set of physical and psychological needs. When marriage serves little, it reflects-as if inhibiting.In many societies divorce is very common and now becoming popular with others too.Marriage counselors are not very effective in saving this institution. Rather pragmatism is seen in processes of
separation.Sensitivities or selective sensitiveness is determining the
relations. Concept of marriage is loosing its basis, as if it was never there.Separation was a rare phenomenon instead of being together.Education or orientation at various levels seems lopsided with regard to marriage or the kind of union.Else, it would have not driven to this situation when communications and understanding of marriage is not complete but tie up occurs.It is a tragedy that management functions have their key result areas, but sets of marital relations do not bear any parameters for compliance. Primarily-ignorance and other urges are governing us all. Excellence in Science and Arts probably do not cover this aspect of life.To be continued--