Many people when they are in a relationship pretend to be someone they are not in the start.
Right from looks, dressing
style, family and work backgrounds are faked mostly by couples in love.
This is the initial stage of a relationship between a man and a woman in which they pretend to be someone they are not to hide what they actually are. Why do they hide? Due to fear of rejection of " What if he/ she rejects me if they know I look this bad in my day to day life and this is where I stand at work and in family? "
When the initial stage of the relationship is over and now comes the testing phase when both the man and woman need to show each other their real, true, honest and non-pretentious side of life, this is the time where they decide whether to stick to each other or leave.
Most couples part ways because the reality is too harsh than fantasy!
The best way is to stay together is to stick to each there come what may!
For singles and couples in love, just remember, "Be your true self “!
You don''t need to be an Aishwarya or Hrithik like to be loved by others!
Nobody on Earth is perfect in looks, money wise, work wise, and intelligence or have family members where all are born geniuses!
If you are short, avoid four-inch high heels to look taller to impress your partner. How long will you wear those heels? Some day they would know your exact height!
If you wear spectacles, avoid suddenly wearing contact lenses to impress your partner. If he/ she truly loves you, she/ he will accept you even in your geek looks.
If you are dark, avoid excessive make-up to look fair. Love is much deeper than skin colour!
If you are not rich, avoid excessively spending in front of your partner to fake that you are rich. Love is beyond richness.
If you are fat and feel less beautiful, avoid hiding your weighty side by wearing Black dress all the time in front of your partner or sitting and talking to hide your fleshy side. Instead start exercising and eat healthy! Love is deeper than being skin deep.
You are beautiful just the way you are and be proud of yourself for accepting your true self!