It hurts a lot when a close
person hurts you for no reason. Sometimes there is no explanation for a wrong deed done
but yes, there is a reason behind it. Do not ever let sadness and hurt brood on you. Come out of it as soon as you can. No
person on this earth has strength to hurt you unless you give him that power to do so. Pain is another name for love. Every coin has two sides, so do love. Love gives harmony but at the same time it hurts you in such a way that you can destroy yourself with the pain given. This pain comes from the hurt that you have suffered. Where there is love there is pain in one way or another. But this pain in positive sense makes you
strong so that in future you will go unaffected by it. Have courage to face and endure this pain. You will learn a new lesson and then you will be able to move ahead leaving away this pain. Make yourself so strong that no one can ever be able to break your will power. You can never predict or see your future but you have power to build it on your terms. Always work in a direction where you can bestow your life with love and care. Never judge others on whatever has happened with you in the past. The person with you at present is always different from a person there with you in the past. Do not compare two if you are faced with a same situation. Do not make same perspective for all the people in your life. You meet different people at every point of life. Judge them on what you see in them and feel when you are with them. If one person has given you the pain then do not let every person in your life stand in the same queue. A person who has courage to hurt you, will always harm you and the person who cares and loves you, will keep on loving you every time. People can be judged by their experience, concern and thoughts. Never judge them by how much they can give. One who has power to love has power to give without demanding anything in return. Learn to love yourself first and then you will be able to love others. Never have any malice in your heart even for those who have been bad to you in anyway. Give them a chance to repent and work towards making them a better person. Always remember God is there to treat you in a way you treat others in your daily life. If you are good to others God will be good to you and if you are bad then God will punish you equally. No one is bigger than you in your life. Never give anyone a chance to let you down. Make yourself so strong that no harm can touch you. Do not get effected by superfluous things in life as they are not meant for happiness.