Well, Verbal abuse is nowadays more prominent than physical
abuse. Every one say prevention is possible but i
suriving abuse is essential.
Resist every inch of abuse and generate lot of
you become suicidal and lose good moods. Abusers are
targetting some emotions, some action and ultimately
Abuses occur in cycles are repeatitive in nature. An
person will refuse to recognize abuse and will not come
of it. If the person is abused in job, he will not
job or proffession. If the person is abused in home he
not go somewhere else. If he is being abused of doing
thing, he will not stop doing that or saying that. The
egoish person is selfish and immatured and cares for
nothing more than himself. Egoish person will become
suicidal but may chose not to die as he will not die
abuse. It will be a case of maximum friction with him.
will become more secluded and asocial, and will hit his
abusers at every possible oppurtunity. He will want to
all but may not have power to do so owing to his non
existing circle of influence.
Ok, After being abused for many hundreds of days, the
egoish person may become more egoless, using any trick
knows. Now, He feels raped and can not kill himself. He
not egoless but he is able to see more sense. He can
recognize what he can do properly, he will be a rights
person, who will always condemn the world for its
lawlessness. He cannot forgive or forget his abusers
are constantly abusing. The good thing is his rights
consciousness can help him come out of his abusive
environment, when he realizes that is not his right to
an abusive job.
What could be the behaviour of such egoish abused
He hates everything, but he can not die for the thigns
hate. He is going to hit every inch of his abusers.
First, He stops feeling for others. No way he can help
ask for help. When he asks for help, he goes into next
stage, i feel he will show sadism by virtually laughing
others pain, as he has become more human to recognize
pain of others. Next, he may move up in emotional
intelligebce and recognize that he will abused if he
that in that way. It is like i will walk nude in street
night and no one should touch me. He will recognize
and when he gets abused and move away from those spots.
may recognize that he needs to chose rather be static
hundreds of days. It is like taking tea for coffee ,
you want to take coffee. When the person is disciplined
can avoid the abusive spots. Well, The person is
and the world is abusive. I am not simulating a win win
scenario, but looking at avoiding abusive spots
that there are such spots.