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Shvoong Home>Arts & Humanities>Abusive spots Summary

Abusive spots

Book Summary   by:Positron     Original Author: R.Sathish
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Well, Verbal abuse is nowadays more prominent than physical

abuse. Every one say prevention is possible but i
believe

suriving abuse is essential.



Resist every inch of abuse and generate lot of
friction,

you become suicidal and lose good moods. Abusers are

targetting some emotions, some action and ultimately
you.



Abuses occur in cycles are repeatitive in nature. An
egoish

person will refuse to recognize abuse and will not come
out

of it. If the person is abused in job, he will not
change

job or proffession. If the person is abused in home he
will

not go somewhere else. If he is being abused of doing
some

thing, he will not stop doing that or saying that. The

egoish person is selfish and immatured and cares for

nothing more than himself. Egoish person will become

suicidal but may chose not to die as he will not die
for

abuse. It will be a case of maximum friction with him.
He

will become more secluded and asocial, and will hit his

abusers at every possible oppurtunity. He will want to
kill

all but may not have power to do so owing to his non

existing circle of influence.



Ok, After being abused for many hundreds of days, the

egoish person may become more egoless, using any trick
he

knows. Now, He feels raped and can not kill himself. He
is

not egoless but he is able to see more sense. He can
not

recognize what he can do properly, he will be a rights

person, who will always condemn the world for its

lawlessness. He cannot forgive or forget his abusers
who

are constantly abusing. The good thing is his rights

consciousness can help him come out of his abusive

environment, when he realizes that is not his right to
do

an abusive job.



What could be the behaviour of such egoish abused
person?

He hates everything, but he can not die for the thigns
he

hate. He is going to hit every inch of his abusers.

First, He stops feeling for others. No way he can help
or

ask for help. When he asks for help, he goes into next

stage, i feel he will show sadism by virtually laughing
at

others pain, as he has become more human to recognize
the

pain of others. Next, he may move up in emotional

intelligebce and recognize that he will abused if he
does

that in that way. It is like i will walk nude in street
at

night and no one should touch me. He will recognize
where

and when he gets abused and move away from those spots.
He

may recognize that he needs to chose rather be static
for

hundreds of days. It is like taking tea for coffee ,
when

you want to take coffee. When the person is disciplined
he

can avoid the abusive spots. Well, The person is
egocentric

and the world is abusive. I am not simulating a win win

scenario, but looking at avoiding abusive spots
recognizing

that there are such spots.
Published: October 29, 2005   
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