The common misunderstanding is that some people start believing physical attractions as love.The attraction towards opposite sex may bring temporary happiness and enjoyment during the unstable attachments. Whereas, the truth is that the happiness, the two persons of opposite sex feel during in company with each other, lasts till they have not gone into deep physical relations.The reason is that the strong sexual desire,faded away which was as a thin thread in bringing the two persons closer.When this thread breaks up,they start neglecting each other. This coolness in the relationships after the few years start pinching their mind.
What has happened to once a charming and romantic lover? If it is the same lover ? the mind thinks over it again and again. There are a lots of men and women who are going through these experiences again and again. If the lovers have gone into the marriage relationships the coolness and apathy towards each other may create tensions in their lives . Because, when the lovers were not married, it was easy to forsake the relations, but after the marriage it will not be easy to give up your husband or wife, because with the performance of marriage, the bounds of society can not be discarded easily. The human beings are social persons, so it is not easy to overlook the social beliefs and customs. The coolness in the relationships of husband and wife, may take them towards adultery.
The query is what happened to the lovers? what has gone wrong with them? They were the same persons who spent countless nights and days in thinking about each other. The answer is, the start of relationships was based on the false ground .The physical attraction and beauty of the body was the foremost thing to which the lovers gave importance. The two bodies passed many nights in the arms of each other, now they knew about every curves, altitudes and troughs of each others’ bodies and there is left nothing to know more . The very relationships was based on the low ground or to say true, on the ground of lust. One day or other this fragile relationship has to be broken up.But ,the persons whose hearts are filled up with the finest emotions and love will show deep affections, even amid contrary circumstances.
Where there is love, there is paradise. It brings happiness, peace and good faiths between the true lovers. Here is a story published in a Sunday Newspaper. It is a story of married couple. The married couple are happy and enjoying every moment of their life. But, one day the wife lost her beautiful brown eyes in a road accident. After some months of complicated treatment she came out of the hospital on her legs but without her beautiful eyes. Now she has to live in the world of total darkness, although she would live in the same outer world full of sunlight. Once of broad smile and blooming confidence, the charming lady retired into the world of desperation. She began fearing, her husband will depart from her. She has no longer remained beautiful .Now, she is blind.She would think over it continuously. Gradually, she lost every wish to live. But, her husband’s love was not confined to shape and curves of the body. It was beyond the beauty of skin. The love was really deep. Which she understood, later.
The husband on contrary to ordinary people, decided to be with her wife in all difficulties. He started giving training her to walk with the help of stick. She asserted again and again, she can not do it. Her husband made of strong will, never gave hope. He found a job for her wife .The husband would escort her to bus-stand and after making her to sit down at her seat in the bus he would leave for the house to complete the remaining works and to be prepare to go to office. The husband will wait her wife at bus stand to take her back to the home in the evening. He did all these services amid the extreme scarcity of the time to cover offi