First of all, I must
say that sex is better than anger. Because the first one creates & anger destroys. Now there is different realization of the word sex. Western countries & countries from East – they don’t possess the same view. However one thing is clear & obvious – if you love a girl, you may feel sexual attraction towards her. It is okay & normal. But I should say that pure love is at first – then sex. If you are only allured – no love is there – then that may be harmful for your existence & survival. I will discuss later.
Again we the
people of India, don’t support pre-marriage sex. No, that is not right. If you are seriously thinking to marry your beloved or
partner then it is justified to test whether he/she is sexually compatible with you or not. Because one, who is satisfied in sex with his/her partner, he/she will have better health &
mind & inspiration for other works. But such type of step should come in the age of 24-25, not before than that. And always keep it in your mind that sex should be safe with proper security. Never force anybody. It should be sensitive and not frequent. Otherwise the charm is killed. I strictly think that sex is only for matured people – it is not a game for kids. So prevent them.
Again the conflict is between sex & spiritualism. If you want to be follower of GOD then there is no problem. Have a happy married life; enjoy your days & nights with your partner. But don’t forget to pray to GOD once in a day for everybody’s welfare. Tell HIM to give you enough strength so that you can help others. Spend sometimes with good people, with some saint – if possible, once in a week. But don’t be superstitious. Don’t have any blind faith upon anybody. See, check & then believe.
Keep it in your mind that you are not a Saint – you have responsibilities to your family. At first do that – that is your duty – GOD wants that. This is the message by GOD that do your duties well & sincerely. Do hard work – pity & “Kripa” will come automatically. There will be mercy & blessings for you.
I will continue this issue. After 7 – 10 days I will write the third part. There is exam during the first
week of December. Stay tuned!
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