The loving touch is the best, the one you use when you put your baby to bed, or caress your lover's cheek. The one no one talks about is the touch that hurts and causes pain.There aren't enough hours in the day to say what we all want to say. Violence is all around us,t.v and movies and in our homes. How can someone tell you they love you and hurt in ways that scar so many things? Causing pain should't be a way to feel better about yourself or being a man. Consenting pain between two adults is normal in some circles and even written about and talked about, it seems to be the norm. Love the touch of passion and wanting from your lover and child or parents, they are the ones to go to for hugs and kisses. Hitting and hurting aren't the way normal people should be with each other, but then some of us aren't normal at all. Humans are the only species to hit and hurt each other to feel better about our own deficiencies. We all have issues and anomalies to deal with, but why hurt someone else to feel better about yourself? Family violence is a never ending cause of pain to us all in this world, love each other and be the best with others that your own heart wants in return. Hurt others and you'll be hurt in return,remember, what goes around comes around twice as bad.And it won't be pretty at all. Know your own heart and what it wants and give that to those in hurt or pain, help the ones who need you there no matter how it makes you feel inside.