When a man and a woman fall into a deep and passionate love it is considered to be a beautiful thing. Yet love is full of pain. One thing I have become to notice is that the worlds opinoin of love is changing. Now instead of being equal, hand in hand, one person is allowed to be in control at all times. Everyone thinks that they should be in charge of the wonderful romance, but yet if the man is in charge, we women demand respect and equality. If the woman is dominant, the relationship usually ends in annoyance because the man has become so dependent on us. How can one normal, natural, beautiful thing turn into something so painful? Sometimes it seems like people are in relationships because it's the thing to do. The one thing that makes our lovely world go round and round somehow has become a disaster. We have so many ideas of how love should be, and yes most of the are wrong. Hopefully, we will all find the one person who will treat us with the love and respect that we want and deserve. Sometimes we go through many people who we liked but still we don't stay with them, because in the end no one really knows what they want. You go through so pain and misery in several relationships and eventually you want to just give up and say, I'm DONE! If we didn't have such pain in our lives we would not see what is so great about the things in life that we already have and don't really pay much attention to. For example, you are with someone who treats you badly and you don't know why. You go through that realtionship feeling like you are worthless and not good enough. Until you meet someone who can't get enough of you and wants to be with you so bad.... So when you think love is stupid and you hate the thought of being in a relationship, remember, the good always has to come with the bad.