Download freely this book on www.amourcomplice.com. This essay of Laurent Perrin ‘ The Vertigo of accomplice love” analyse the evolution of lover behaviours since the women’s lib, who look like give a new surge to a spirituality humanist atheist. It’s equaly a guide of manage and understanding of mecanism of emotions, destinate to large public. The study of human evolution allow to think that our emotions are the result of our behaviours. The social changing associate to the new life style give birth to the news emotions of intensity more or less strong. Like this, the arrogance or the pride are of emotions who aren’t the same sense not the same intensity that to Middle Ages where we can sacrified his life for them. Consequency of the women’s lib, the relationship fo couple are balanced. In the same time, born a new family, a new form of love is create that the author define like accomplice love. This study conduct us to think that the nature of our emotions is determined by the structure of our langage, it’s in working directly on the langage, but also on the psychologic time notion own to each person, that we could resolve certains emotional problems who block again the developpment of accomplice love. An analyse of differents forms of love allow to define a serial of specific behaviours of accomplice love, like this that one serial of wrong behaviours but instinctive who we plunge in the schemes of submission love of possession love of our ancestor. But modificate of the instinctive behaviours, it’s very difficult, we must to be perservering and determine. In the second part, the author propose a method who, by the master of langage thank to the analyse of our conversations and to the transformation of our interior dialogue, will allow to reader to pass a difficult stage. The objective is that each person take his destiny in hands and intensify his couple’s life in the accomplice love. A rational approach of one concept of the soul and of God who can serve of model to the spell think contain in the differents religious belief. This book is a tool of understanding and of personnal developpment. This book will be useful to all those who look foor the reference in the modern social relationship and in their conjugal life, he develops a method of managment of emotions.