Though this world is full of all sorts of activities; it is also confusing and obscure.People all over the world are not simply sitting and relaxing in their leisure time.They are indeed busy in one way or the other. And why in most of the joint families across the world there is an element of discomfort in living together through lack of better communication and ego problem that is the fuel for the fire of attitude generated by the shoddy and narrow minded people.
Why not take this in such a way that not only help you to ignore these people's behaviour towards you but also will make you happy. That is to accept things as it is; which means even if there is no mistake from your side and if the people around you point at you. Infact conclude the matter by swearing not to repeat again for that dirty thing which you have not done instead of trying hard to prove that you are innocent; yes it is not good to argue. Always live life in a systematic way. Concentrate hard on achieving your success.
There are lots of things to do in a short span of life and it is amazing why people don't understand to take things as they come; instead they keep on complaining. If you see things with a pleasant mind you could be able to develope a positive frame of mind.
This will be the right approach for your hard work is well supported by your happiness. Working hard with a disturbed mind will harm you. So always be in a happy mood and take a good care of the members in your joint family. Take care in the sense that you should not speak or do something which they don't like. Utilize your skills and try to develope yourself in every aspect. Always remember not to bother about other people's bad behaviour. Think that if a person has a few bad qualites or habits; he or she may perhaps have some good qualities too. However, ignore other peoples bad things and collect only the good things that should be counted. Remember you cannot say a person is bad and stay with him or her. In most of the cases people were cheated by strangers more than their family members or old friends. And when it is safe to live together than the quarrells and complains are unnecessary one must realize.