Recreate the magic in your relationship. Remember the time when one special glance from your lover sent ripples of excitement
through your body? The hungry yearning, the longing for his/her gentle touch, hours of consummate lovemaking where nights turned into days.
Then you get married; start taking each other for granted. And slowly the passion fades.
Passion is like fire. You must keep adding logs to keep it going.
Try any of these sweet and
romantic ideas and you’ll be cavorting like newlyweds:
- Now and then, lug out the old photo albums and remind each other of how much fun your life together has been.
- Show a genuine interest in your beloved’s interest.
- Be a good listener. Be sure to always give your beloved space to talk about them as well.
- Do little things. Surprise each other with flowers, candy a card, or other gift. Do it for no particular reason. Do it because you love each other.
- To nurture your marriage, make sure you’re nurturing yourself, too. Take a few minutes every day to close your eyes and sit quietly, stretch or indulge in a hot, scented bath.
- When you both are busy at home, try to be busy in the same room. Some of the best conversations are born that way.
- Plan romantic outings together in quiet places.
- Gentle nonsexual, tender touching can convey your love and warm to your partner.
- Broaden your expectations
- Tell the truth about your feelings, and do it promptly and in a respectful, effective way.
- Cultivate your sense of humour. Share a joke, take time to tickle each other or rent a funny movie, and do it often.
- Respect your
humanity and the humanity of your beloved.