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Electronic Love

Website Review   by:Yasmine    
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electronic love
A lot of people say that the eyes are the windows to the soul and that you need to meet in person to get a real feel for each other, but in long distance relationship is different.
Love from long distance relationship is weird in first time; love and long distance how come, but in the end of the story discover that they are really in love, but how come, not to see each other and they are lovers?

First define lovers from long distance relationship is: two people who cares for each other separated by mountains, seas and rivers, unable to see each other in regular basis, share the same facts as an average relationship, it involves two people who share an interest.
Every lover can define there love in different way, but the basic things must to be between each other is: sharing, caring, loving and understanding. They don’t love each other like family or friends no more than that, they are express there love in different ways.
In the past the only way to communicate was by face to face to convey messages, after years the way to communicate developed, like telegraph, telephone, cell phone and the last thing is internet, the internet is the fast way to communicate with each other, by e-mail or chat.
What the different between love by face to face and love on internet?

The different is the way we communicate, in face to face, they can express there love by holding hands, hugs, and kisses, saying I love you in eyes, see if he is honest or not from the way he talking, see his real act, most of the things clear from your side, can love each other from the first sight, but in the internet can love each other from the first word, and they express they feelings by: e-mails, e-cards, chat, and phone, they can’t see how they act 24 hours, they don’t know that if he saying the truth or not, even in this way have more doubts in your heart, and have a lot of problems if he says true or not, but every problem we can solve it, if he says the truth from the beginning, and every clever person, can have feelings if he saying truth or not even he far away, must to be aware from every details that he going to tell you, you know even if he far miles from you, it’s not say that you can’t love him, the Distance is just a test to see how far love can travel.
Sometimes we afraid that the relationship becomes cold if they not see each other for long time more than two months, but even the relationship from long distance the love can grow, like from time to time we must to refresh our relationship, such as: sending love poem to each other, sending romantic e-card send song in our voice… a lot of ways that we can keeping our relationship fresh.
If our relationship from long distance must to be rules to keep growing like normal lovers. The rules are:

1) Set some rules from the beginning:
What kind of relationship both wants, if they are serious or not, a lot of rules can put it from the beginning that helping you to counties the relationship successfully.

2) Keep each other updated:
Know each other news, what happened, feel, think, everything must to know about it.

3) Trust:
If you both agree not to see other people, you must to have faith and trust on him, and when he not online, must to have feelings that he busy and no time to come online, not that he not care about you, you must to trust on him, blind trust even you far away.

4) patience:
In every relationship can problems comes around, be patience and don’t lose your control in silly things, every problem comes just write notes, to success your relationship, and not come to your mistake other time. Be patience if you need a shoulder to cry and he not here near you, but believe that he always near your heart and listen to you always, you just can close your eyes and feel that he near. Be patience, if you can’t see him every week, you can see him every month, but must to be patience, because you know from the beginning the long distance relationship make the people suffering sometimes, but in the end it worth.

If these rules were in the relationship from long distance it wills success, but some cases it’s hard to handle the suffer from long distance, such as: seeing each other weekly, a lot of people can’t love from long distance relationship, but if in the end it’s your choice, if you see the dream man in the chat room, you can’t just say no for him, just agree in every relationship have negative and positive things.

In my opinion a lot of couples married from the long distance relationship and its work. A lot of sites support these couples and the people want a sole mate, they write a profile and if any one interesting on them they send them mail.
Published: September 08, 2007   
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