Scorpios are known for their intensity. They are very determined in every thing they do or “want” to do because if
somebody
else wants to make them commit to something will be rarely an easy task. Scorpios have absolutely their own mind. They like to have the power in a relationship which could be a negative thing but they offer so much in return because your Scorpio lover is capable of experiencing
intense passion and desire so you will feel very loved and you can experience, live, love near him or her like near nobody else. Those eyes... those eyes... what is it about those intense, magnetic Scorpio eyes? As Scorpio's lover, chances are you've discovered the mysterious, magnetic drawing power that your Scorpio often seems to have on people. They are like magnets, everything is different about them and nobody can resist them. And be sure they know that, they know they are irresistible. Scorpios are very good friends, it is true they have few, but those relationships are for a life time. So if you have a friend or lover in Scorpio you are a lucky one cause they will be always there for you.
Their intelligence is absolutely instinctive. Strategies are their specialty. It can be very hard to win an argument or debate with a Scorpio. They are absolutely driven to win, not just for the sake of scoring intellectual points, but simply to come out on top in general. Scorpio love mystery so if you want to win their hearts you have to play that game of seek and hide. And of course you have to play hard to get because they will never want
somebody which is an easy prey. Scorpio loves somebody which can challenge their brains wanting not only a love connection but a mental one too.
Shadow : Near a Scorpio you can experience intense jealousy and often unfounded suspicions. Jealousy is one of the biggest defects which a Scorpio has, and can be understood because their lover has to be only theirs, they follow the devise all or nothing, they will never be happy with half.
This paranoia can totally screw up an excellent relationship. Another shadow characteristic to watch out for with Scorpio is subtle manipulation. As also mentioned Scorpio has a need for control. Scorpio has discovered that sometimes the ability to will things into existence using sheer "will power" just isn't quite fast enough to suit them - and so Scorpio may feel the need to manipulate circumstances and/or people in order to get what they want. Of course nobody is perfect but near a Scorpio you can see and feel love at another level. Their body-and-soul love and commitment can be so intense that you will never want to leave their presence. If you want to live life with high intensity then a Scorpio is the best choice for you. And you never know you may be able to even keep up with them.