This abstract was not thought of when I was planning to write something different on the New Year Day. It just happened to me that I became inclined momentarily towards writing something other than about software reviews.The readers who painstakingly read my previous articles would certainly be baffled when they come across this one.In fact I would like to introduce you to a much talked of subject - that of the immense requirement and the subsequent importance of a real
friend in your
life.Following a speedy lifestyle and materialistic approach to life, we all suffer of late from a 'no
friends syndrome'.But the problem augments itself when we go back inside the shell and mourn the fact.We must rather go for an exhaustive endeavour for finding friends.Though it sounds difficult, it is not extremely
hard to find a friend as long as you
remain sincere in your effort and maintain the decorum in order to keep the
friendship alive.We need to work hard on this anyway.For an instance, we find it hard to remain decent when it comes to friends of
opposite sex.In this case , the very first mistake we make is to grade her as just another girl who doesn't mind obscenety. But this is a blunder and often kills the friendship in the embryo stage itself.On the other hand, friends of opposite sex are always more communicative than of the same one.Maybe they understand each other better.I am not talking about the so called friendship between a married couple.In fact it is as fictitious as a ghost!In fact I believe personally that almost 85% of the people around us are unable to find a friend in their whole life! Because whom they call friends are merely some passer bye-s who vanishes when they feel a lack of response.So, the best way to have good friends is to remain patient and wait for the right time to happen one in your life.Ashish Mukherjee(the author can be reached atpupblazer@gmail.com)
Published: January 01, 2007
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