Means a mixed
marriage, a Muslim man marrying a Muslim or a foreigner or foreign or Muslim but a Muslim from another country.
There are those who see a failed or will fail and there are those who see the opposite.
Q: What is
marriage?
Marriage is a mutual understanding and the selection of spiritual, psychological and humanitarian between husband and wife is based on this basis, it is
important to have a selection in the social and human values between men and women if any of these factors will be successful, and we do not deny the fact that men and women in the same environment is an important factor in the process of selection.
* The nature of the marital relationship is quite complex, and if there are differences in language, religion and religious customs and cultural relationship increasingly complex. Some people say that the only way to succeed in it completely successful mixed marriage is to submit to one of the parties reaching concessions from the area of conscience and of course this particular point of view does not reflect all but taken into account.
* Types of marriage and cases /
1) marriage of convenience: It is well known and will be for many reasons, including access to nationality, residence or work or money and other ...
2) forced marriage: a marriage of the students during the study period for cases and under certain circumstances.
3) resulting from the marriage party convinced the other hand, a mind and heart, which endure.
The degree of culture and education, important that there be compatibility between husband and wife and there are strict rules in the daily dealings between husband and wife and the sense of mutual respect between them.
* Compared to the problems between the couples who married and mixed marriage between the sons of one country
Some say that foreign spouses in the end to arrive commented by the accumulation of different problems with each other, but in the beginning we say that the key to marriage is the convergence of social and human values, Muslim women often have a very large and the fulfillment of family life and will fit easily with all the circumstances and easy to adapt to any situation because they want to live and trying very hard to the continuity of her family. But this does not negate the existence of many problems between couples of the same country may not come out of these problems to the surface, but particularly in foreign and European countries demand their rights to the public if you go to court and demand their rights and without shame.
* Some people believed that the foreigner has rights of many more Muslim and this great injustice against Muslim women, and therefore Muslim husband make concessions to the foreign, while with the Muslim does not offer anything, the reason for this phenomenon?
In many cases, we are the reason for this phenomenon when we are traditional conservatives do not give the Muslim rights in many cases be the cause of intellectuals and journalists who hold the lead in the course of the press and media when creating a feeling for a Muslim to foreign women appreciate his understanding of Muslim and through example, the model before in magazines and newspapers for women, the Western model of women in all parameters, so when he sees a Muslim Sitsour as is required for this trip it starts concessions.
Important for couples to reconsider things, to respect their wife Muslim intelligentsia, because of Muslim women and Tthagaft learned and became more aware of things and claim their rights, so couples should be more understanding of these matters and to give women their rights and understand the sense of whatever she is Muslim.
* The role of language in the marriage?
Language is an important factor in marriage, because the meaning of the concepts and deep for words related to civilization, education and applied socially. There are studies that show that the community does not hear the characters spoken and heard in its conception but civilization, culture and always said that the problem of instruction between women and men due to the socialization of both. Whatever shred person foreign language emptiness of space will remain free, there is a language of intimacy, conscience and feelings that will remain far away.
* Important advice to those who submit to a mixed marriage /
That the person fully aware of what can be up to him and that there is prior agreement on child-rearing, and that religion is an important factor, especially when it comes children. The Muslim also understand the language that the boys usually are closer to the mother and the mother to be her children closely so it is natural that the children like the mother and the mother tongue is dominant and is the language spoken and this is normal.