we have all gotten our heartbroken before, but no one will answer why. the main reason is because that other person cheated.i've concluded people cheat because they have no self control, no heart, or have been heartbroken from a cheater before. why share the pain to others? we have all been cheated, and know what it did to us. it changed everything about you, and how you felt about that person and how you felt about everyone else.the first time i ever got cheated on, i felt sick to my stomach i wanted to throw up...i wanted to die. there was no one or anything that can take that pain away from me. i comepletey lost myself and became this person who hated everyone.the person who cheated on me couldnt even ask me the one simple question that i deserved to know...why!? why did you cheat on me!? it didnt matter to him/her how many times i asked why, all he/she can say to me was "i was lonely". "are you serious"!, thats all i can say to him/her.to the people who are sharing my pain, who are sharing my experience...didnt we love that person to the fullest, didnt we make sure that they knew they was loved and you would always be by there side...didnt we? so for them to tell us they was lonely, didnt it crush your heart? i didnt know what to do with myself, because i put everything that i had into that relationship.They had no reason to break my heart, they had no reason to break your heart....our heart, but they did it because they didnt care.because a piece of me was still there somewhere, i wouldnt share the pain with someone else, i wouldnt cheat on anyone ever because i know how it feels. what about the cheater? now let's put ourselves in the cheaters shoes...someone cheated on them before their heart has been broken and they no longer care for anyone or anything. everyone they have fall in love with them, they cheat on and create more cheaters.they think its justified to hurt people because they been hurt.we all know you cant fight fire with fire, and two wrongs dont make a right, but naturally humans are revengeful.stop cheating, it only creates more cheaters, more brokenhearted people, more chaos in this world that we dont need.if you feel like your going to cheat either break up with that person or just fight the temptation.if you cant fight the temptation, and if you cant just break up with that person...your a selfish bastard...and what goes around comes around.