All depends on the intention and our ultimate goal of all (prospective husband and wife) to do what is marriage? So to be clear, firm and follow the rules of religion. A bride has made preparations to mature, and immediately asked the doctor because it involves kesehatn, as follows:
The short exposure
I already have a prospective husband. We agreed to enter family life this year. Since several months I have prepared myself by reading books related to domestic life. To build a healthy household and prosperous seems not only necessary preparations in terms of finances, but also mental readiness. For that we need also lived a healthy lifestyle to support a healthy household, health good husband, wife, and children alike.
I have undergone HPV vaccination, a vaccine to prevent cervical cancer. I have undergone three injections and the doctor declared that vaccination was complete. I also already have had a Hepatitis B vaccination during complete school.
Vaccines what else is needed in order to maternal health and also preparations pregnant later? Health checks what I need and future husband lived before sitting for marriage?
I often read about cases of domestic violence in the media. Frankly, I am very worried about the experience of violence in my household later. How do I prevent it? Differences of opinion in the household can certainly arise, sometimes even fights can occur. However, how these disagreements can be resolved properly. Is there an institution that conducted the course effective communication within the family?
I feel that preparation is important is the readiness of both candidates to be willing to communicate well. Lately it seems the tendency of increasingly lavish wedding and complicated, but attention to preparing the bride of health, both in terms of physical, mental, and social, less. Please opinions and explanations doctor.
Explanation Doctor
I also feel happy because you have a high awareness of health issues. You already carry HPV and Hepatitis B vaccination Indeed, the two vaccines is important for expectant mothers. HPV is expected to prevent cervical cancer, while Hepatitis B vaccination is important for women planning a pregnancy so that their children not infected with Hepatitis B.
Health checks are recommended for couples who are getting married is an examination of general health, including sexually transmitted disease and thalassemia. Do not forget the consulting room has also repeatedly recommended that HIV testing in pregnant women because it is now available means of prevention of HIV transmission from pregnant mothers to their babies.
Before the marriage will also need to tetanus vaccination in the prospective bride. In addition, do not forget if you have never undergone vaccination of rubella (German measles). Vaccination is important in young women because it can prevent the occurrence of congenital rubella in babies will be born. As is known, infants with congenital rubella can suffer disability and even death.
Communication between husband and wife is very important. Often times we feel communication is a mild problem and we think has been mastered. It is becoming more aware of communication skills is required in various aspects of life, including domestic life. In the household need good communication between husband and wife, father or mother with children. Also communication with other occupants in the house. Often lack of communication or communication that is not good in the household led to quarrels and even divorce.
I am also grateful you care about the problem of domestic violence. This problem should not only concern the candidate''s wife, but also a potential husband. Domestic violence must be prevented, because it is a good candidate for a wife or husband need to understand what that violence in the household, why can occur in domestic violence. I believe you already know your fiance well. There''s a good idea to discuss this important matter with him.
Once again congratulations to prepare ourselves to foster a healthy and prosperous families and hopefully we all get the pleasure of Allah SWT.