love ..: its a fashion , its a passion . "
The movies ,the magazines , the book racks , even the news papers are full of it . how can one avoid being influenced by this love that fills the world we move in ?its not uncommon to see dozens of youngsters moving about in pairs , gazing soulfully into each others eyes , holding hands , sitting on the rocks or on their two wheellers or walking starring into each others eyes on the beach . when they should be exploring the real meaning of life , they are busy proving to the world and to themselves that they are "with it " they are able to replicate what their hero's or heroin's do on the screen . what a waste of precious time and energy .
once our counsellor said "you think you are in love with every handsome guy or every beautiful girl who swaggers before your eager eyes but my dears , if you introspect you will find that you are in love with the idea of being in love .
You view it on the screen , you read about it in the novels you have got to be in the swim . but i would advise you to look among at your parents , may be grandparents or uncles and aunts who successfully lived in their partnership for years , facing difficulties together , sacrificing foe each other and their families .
Sorry to take the glamour and gift off the picture . but true love is not so easy and superficial as the books and movies make it seem. it will become a reality in your life in its own time and that time is certainly not now . this is the time for you to develop a love for all humanity and not restrict your growth by imagining love for one person .
love everyone around you show care for them as good friends , elders , relatives etc.,because when some one asks you " A re you in love ? " you can say ...no " love is in me ."