Life becomes profanity. People become faded hopes. Life is filled with injustice, slander, and the calamity that never quit. All the existing circumstances, there are factors that cause, Well no one else than the leader it is the 'wife'..
Short fragments that occurred in the past, and also in the present. Many rulers in power, but essentially, he does not have power anything. The role and authority of such a large, and which appear in the eyes of his subjects, but he has no real role and prestige in the face the 'wife '.
Because, he is a servant of the 'wife'. Instead of power, authority, decisions and orders, all of them do not come from himself, but in the hands of his 'wife'. Ruler who is very handsome and dignified, and it seems powerful, can only say 'ready' in front of the 'wife'. He's just being a 'servant' who are obedient from the 'wife'. This is what causes a lot of havoc in the past, and in the present.
A dark history, none other, as a leader, a man has no properties 'qawwam', and can not become leaders and models. So, finally had to become followers and implementers of the word 'wife'..
His best friend named Ibn Kha'ab, very amazed to see the situation shahabatnya, which now becomes the ruler, and with the power such an extent, but seeing the condition is not appropriate. "Where a fascinating look yourself first?", Said Kha'ab.
Then, what his firend answer that, "O Ibn Kha'ab. You will be surprised again, when will see me later after buried in soil. My eyes will be dislodged from its place, and the caterpillars will wander in the mouth and throat ", he said.
Yes, his face handsome and mighty sturdy body has changed, because the exposure is such a big responsibility................
The man who has the power of such a large and broad, ranging from Baghdad to the Maghribi that, one day, early in his position as ruler, he called his wife, then that must be confronted with the reality they face.
The man gently, brought the that as a husband, he's not worth it anymore. Burden to bear so heavy, till no more time left for other purposes. Then, diserahkanlah to the wife he loved it, the right to choose a life fully and to determine the days ahead. Still want membersamainya or select the grandeur of the world.
And, the woman who became his wife, his name will remain engraved with glittering along the pages of history. We will always convey respect and reverence to him, in a manner that appropriately.
The woman enters the life of her husband mendapingi very heavy, ie, complete tasks and responsibilities. He had never complained when his stomach was very hungry, and bone-tulangya painful, because tired of working, other than simply saying:
"O, what a difference our lives before and after becoming the caliph, like the east with the west", he said. "By Allah, we have never enjoyed kegimbaraan since we occupied this office," he added. She was determined to hurling himself with her husband in the great responsibilities.