- September, for all of us is on traumatic months, returned from holidays, start with the routine of everyday life, return to work is difficult. Unfortunately we forget that our own difficulties "recovery", \ and can also have our children with school, whether it is already integrated in the school of boys, and especially if they begin with the first year (kindergarten , elementary, middle, high)
In this article Psicologies (in my view, very
interesting and useful for moms like me can be found at
having to struggle with their children for the fateful return to school)
are exposed in a very simple, some rules
that can help parents make less The Traumatic
return to school. To formulate these "good rules" were
interviewed Laura Calabresi, psychologist and psychotherapist,
President of "Psyche project at the Milan and
Patrizia Adamoli Ligie personal coach and lecturer in Middle
Educazion at the University of Macerata.
Different ways to help their child by type of school
If your child is afraid of the teacher, just explain that
not a judge but as an adult who has chosen work
Try to make the child understand that "knowledge" can be
something amusing for him: if He can read, write and
numeracy, can go to buy bread alone! let him
understand that you or the teacher, you are there to help in case
difficulties and that no one wants to judge. Make mode
prepare the backpack is c ame a party, learn to
gradually doing it alone, as the order - Do
attention to his behavior, if he sleeps, or wakes up if
changes in eating habits and so on. Do not load it
forward commitments to too many extras - school for him is already a
big effort to get used to having a new world! E
remember that the game should not miss,
need to continue to grow it.
Being close to our main child without being pushy, it helps
grow and find his way.
Stay close to your boy, does not mean we
doing things in its place! Indeed! We must encourage,
encourage him, make him understand that a mistake is not a
Eternal defeat. E ''in these three years that form the basis
If you experience unusual or that did not change
were present, discuss or find alternatives for the
vent may be the best solution before resorting to
LLCE & CO..
If you understand that studies are selected by their son
unsuitable, better change schools immediately before the
boy feels frustrated.
The School is a very important step and
as such must be monitored.
From now on we will no longer be confronted with a relationship between
teacher and pupil, but between two adults. The other players
become bandmates. Always be available to
dialogue, because in addition to educational problems may arise
Socialization problems, to love so forth. And the period
your child must learn to expose, to communicate, to
compare your knowledge with others. If necessary
Help them, reading a newspaper article or something
Internet then discuttere topic together.
6 GOLDEN RULES
> Convinced that the school is a good thing. Parents
be less critical of teachers
Otherwise it should see as little as possible to their
> To be supportive in case of real need, but
Remember, to give ample space for autonomy.
> Making sense cha studying not to happy parents, but
be able one day, to be autonomous and protagonists
of their choices.
> Remember them, than boys in many other countries,
are lucky, as this study is a right index
> Maintain a high dialogo.L ''mistake should not be cause
of reproach, in fact in this case will
portatotendenzialmente to withdraw into himself and not to
> Very often the first major difficulty in
is "not knowing how to study." Look Good with a method