Well, you may think how am I qualified to write on this. I have been married for 30 years now and it is still going very strong.
Don’t think it has been smooth sailing all along. There has been fights, they are still raging on; but we stick. May be we want to.
Why should we drift?
For new frontiers? To explore new territories?
Why should we? We are happy with our own territories. It may be old, it may be stale, but it is perfectly Ok with us both. Those who feel insecure with their own powers may want to experiment. Should we? When the whole thing ends, it ends.
There is no need to try fresh grounds at all. Being happy with what you have is just good enough.
There is an emotional bond between us. When I feel beaten terribly in the market, I have her, who will soothe my wounded self or depressed soul. That is wonderful. There is a consoling feeling: to be sure that someone cares for you. You cannot create it just like that. It is reciprocal. You give and take.
Make her feel wanted. You can make her feel that she has to be around for your own happiness.
Make life romantic. Sex may not work all that well at night, without even touching her once during the day lovingly or holding her hand for one time dearly or giving a romantic pass or a glance once in a while.
Make sure that she is emotionally bonded to you. Money and presents cannot ensure this. Open yourself to her and let her fathom your inner self. Let her feel one with you, irrespective of whatever is transpired between you two when you fight.
Meet her feminine needs: good dress, ornaments, cosmetics and a good place to stay.
Above all make her feel secure; physically and emotionally. You can then win.
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