No Superior or inferior in quality
We can see
many people with the habit that they become very
much
nostalgic while the point of their own possession come in
to play. They get very much motified while they have to
throw out any momentous gift or any of their possessed
thing.
They just take it as a fact that they are going
to loose it forever.
They find that very precious
thing being too much
assimilated within their utterly
secret place of mind, and
they cannot let that thing
sublime from the surface of
their heart. If it happens
at all, then they perceive it as
loosing of whole
world, and by getting moped they treat
themselves as
not being associated with any of the good
things of
this world. Other people, who are not habituated
or
acquainted with such a thing, can take this habit, rather
saying nature, as a melodrama and think this monomania
as
insanity.
But do we know that, this kind of
behaviour happens with two
types of personalities. One
who gets every good thing in
his life without giving
any effort and one who looses
everything even after
giving every efforts. The first
category is not being
accustomed to loose anything in this
world. Those
persons think that they are supposed to get
every
better opportunity and every better thing. So, after
getting any gift or buying any special
item, they get
excessively obsessed of it. So, if that
thing gets
damaged in any way, they cannot afford to loose
it. As
this kind of a
person, cannot share anything with
anybody, and cannot even accept the fact that anything
can
ever be departed from them. Because they think this
world
to be under their own feet, and they love to
monopolize and
dominate.
Now get into the second
category. As being always looser,
this sort of
personality becomes very much insecured after
purchasing and being gifted with any thing. They treat
each
and every of their possession as their passion or
obsession. Though they are accustomed to loose but some
place of their mind remain one very strong desire to
possess something good and say something of their own.
Thus, if they get even a very little gift, they get
very
much attached to it, and feel very privileged
Discussing such a problem we can only find one fact
that
instead of treating those kind of a person as an
insane, it
is better to make them secured in a proper
way. For a first
category of a person, they really need
not to fly high and
keep the feet on their own level.
They should be reared up
properly and better to let
them know from the very
childhood about the goodness of
the nature of sharing and
giving.
For second sort
of personality, if somebody looses his
every special
thing very frequently in his life, then he
will start
thinking that life is not smooth sailing. Here
these
kinds of persons have to realize that to gain
something
one has to loose something. It can be the better
advise
for them that every body in this world has to loose
something or the other in a course of life. The person
borne with a golden spoon in his mouth even has to
loose
something in his life. No word called Looser or
Gainer can be tagged with anybody’s life. Few people
may
seem to be very privileged, may be for their well
to do parental
background or something else. But it
does not mean every
happiness of this world is stored
for his fortune. People who make
their own destiny by
their own struggling hand, they are
the real fighter
and indeed a Gainer. People having the nature of low self
esteem and with the negative mindset can also be the
obstacle in their life. Many people with very
struggling
background have left their own identity in
this world,
history says. These instances are not rare.
Thus it is to conclude that no body is more or less
privileged in this whole world. People love to take
their
names, those who make their own destiny by their
own hand.
People salutes those soldiers who have at
least tried
to conquer. In this whole world no body is
inferior or
superior. Everybody with equal sharing of
quality can
easily rule over if there is conviction in
life and
determination in mind. As long as possession
is concerned
nothing remains as it is in this world. We
need to accept
departure and welcome the new arrival.
As we all know that
every cloud has a silver linen. So
live the life as it comes
and leave getting obsessed of
anything. Because those who
want to grip anything very
strongly, then that very thing gets
suffocated. If you
leave the way it is, it will remain with
you and in a
due course of life when it has to depart, it will.
So
live life happily and feel every bit of beauty in this
world.
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