Love!! A way to go Bazaar Balaba AsumanDespite the luring generation, Grown up think of the partners to make their life awesome?
You may be among those who have not, and a few have made up with laid strategies to success or be halted to lasting regret by loved ones. In the catholic community, nuns and church leaders endure to serve the almighty God. A person living a lonely life (No partner) is branded abnormal embracing a different planet not earth. Lovers do enclave Jargons to hook the one and only established partner in life, like; Queen of my heart, sweetie, and honey to mention as the mesmerizing tunes on peoples lips.Is worthy to question the life span of love, the time you hook up with one! To a surprise many promise earth and heaven to mean it or a hook for one night.You do it or others do it to you!Life is full of interesting and worrying moments, which individuals do experience.Despite challenges life still moves on, and is possible when adjusting to the operating time basically GMT African time.Some people fall in love with intermediaries setting the line or partners hooking up, meeting the nitty-gritty for life or go getter one time enjoyment.One of the two, every individual weigh it depending on his/ her desire and life is lead to follow in all directions. The Y2K ( 21st century) generations are found of hooking each other at the party, Paradise places, institutes, work place and even on the way. This demystifies the ancient version of relatives/ parents looking for the right partner a daughter/ son to get married too. In the ancient version, sampling was an abomination in that most got married when they were virgin, but with the Y2K series, Tom, Harry, Annet fill comfortable to know each other, in love sexually before marriage. This is not embracing the partner’s character but hooking up in the so-called “Sex”, which is treasured to make the partners contented for long lasting love. Those embracing the Jargon do enjoy it, but holy God living and cultural servants depict a lost world next to days of destruction; Sodom and Gomorra.Whom do you consider to have embraced holly marriage? Abraham and Sarah, if not overwhelmed, embraced God as the only one to the extent of Abraham fathering Isaac at the age of more than 90 years! Was it real love? Joseph loved Mary but when he knew that Mary was pregnant, he felt to distance until he received a massage that Mary had a holly pregnancy and no trouble for Joseph to marry the Virgin Mary. Many things have befallen love breakout, which among others may be; Failure to study the person to fall in love with, Unexpected weird behavior portrayed by the partner, Desire for what can not be done by one of the two particularly, demand for treasures among others.In such a scenario, many turn to the Gishu Jargon of being “Shombe Shombe”, whereby partners establish their apartment and live the one and only life hook up once for a while the time he/she feels like.But is this the way to go!! Love is desired to agreed parties, but how do we manage it.The Y2K series are full of Up and down in that someone kill if him/her love is brought to a standstill.Acid, bewitching, poisoning, gun fire among others is the order of the day to disgruntled parties. Love has turned to be a playing ground of winners takes all and losers find their way out to refurbish with others or declare no more by erasing out of worldly life as they see life reaching the maximum to their experience.This is frequent; in that partners poison themselves as the alternative to forget their disserted partners. With this act, still parents more aggrieve cursing the world a place of no hope and joy. With the increasing population of more females to few male, ladies stand a chance of getting married to a man with many wives.The E-learnt generations find it un-civilized to share a man but in the past it was the order of the day in that per now in Swaziland King Mswat has more than ten wives expecting to marry more.With more femaleto male, you can be pessimistic of the future time on the rage of marriage couple to be in house to one man.But still even in such a situation some stick to marry one partner whom they can live a lovely and comfortable life.Life is all what you want it to be. Crying that you are poor still is what reflects in your life but laying your strategy to get rich despite hurdles at time X you find a destiny of achieving your goal as long as you are committed.Love shouldn’t be a playing ground for winners taking all and the losers cursing the world as if it’s ending tomorrow.Lovers should try to live to their principles laid out, not changing colors like chameleon. Broken heart, gullet, Ear and ankle are hard to repair/ rejoin, so mind when intending to do it!The world will be a place of joy if lovers keep their promises.Amen, Amen, amen…….