I would not call this an essay as such, but the article was published years ago in the Springs and Brakpan Advertiser and
I think it is of interest to a very special group of people. I know that I found this list extremely helpfull.This sort of knowledge, like parenting, is not taught at school and often one has to fumble ones way through these particularly rare occasions.So without further ado I bring you a Wedding Check List, which will give you a lovely overview of the whole planning necessary for your ''Special Day''.
Nine - Twelve Months
Before
Determine who will officiate at the
ceremony. Select a wedding date and time.Announce your engagement in the newspaper.Determine how many guests may attend.Determine the type of wedding you want
(size, style, color scheme).Select and order the bridesmaids'' dresses.Establish a budget.Select and secure
photographer.Select caterer if not already provided
by the
reception.Select and secure reception location.Select and secure ceremony location.Begin choosing your wedding cake baker,
videographer, musicians, and florist. Sign necessary contracts.Pick out engagement ring with fiancé.
Six - Nine Months
Before
Start compiling the guest list (inform
your families to do the same).Select the attendants for your wedding
party.Shop for the wedding dress, headpiece,
veil, etc.Start planning for honeymoon.
Four - Six Months
Before
Make appointments for a physical exam with
your doctor/dentist.Check requirements for blood test and
marriage license in your state.Shop for wedding rings.Select and order the invitations and
stationery.Decide where to live after the wedding.Complete the guest lists.Begin shopping for trousseau.Send your engagement announcement to the
newspaper.Inform mothers to select their dresses.Select and order the men''s attire.Finalize honeymoon details and make the
necessary reservations.
Two - Four Months
Before
Confirm the menu and catering details with
the caterer.Prepare all maps and directions for the
ceremony and reception.Select your wedding rings.Buy a wedding guest book.Set the dates and times with the officiant
for the rehearsal.Plan the bridesmaids'' luncheon and any
other parties.Determine your resources for designing and
printing the program for the ceremony.Finalize the florist details,
photographer, videographer, musicians, etc.Arrange the necessary accommodations for
out-of-town guests.Confirm the wedding cake details with the
baker.
Six - Eight Weeks
Before
Mail invitations and announcements.Prepare a portrait for the newspaper.
Check your local newspaper for details and timing.Set appointment with photographer for your
formal bridal portrait.Select gifts for all your attendants.Set appointments with any hairdressers
and/or makeup artists.Hire the limousine or other forms of
transportation for the wedding.
Four - Six Weeks
Before
Decide what your menu is going to be for
the reception. Estimate the expected number of guests.Buy a gift for the groom.Schedule a final fitting for your gown so
it can be ready for your formal bridal portrait.Purchase a going away outfit.Pick up your wedding rings.Purchase (borrow) all wedding accessories
such as the ring pillow, goblets, garter belt, candles, etc.Confirm florist details and delivery
times.Plan the seating for the reception as well
as other details for the ceremony and reception. Start writing placement
cards.Make sure all bridesmaids'' attire has been
fitted.Buy a gift for the bride.
Two Weeks Before
Make arrangements to have your wedding gifts
moved to your new home.Handle business and legal details such as
name changes, address changes, etc.Prepare the wedding announcement for the
newspaper.Reconfirm your guests'' accommodationsMake sure all clothiries for
you and the bridal party are ready.Get your marriage license and any blood
tests which are needed.
One Week Before
Review any seating details with the
ushers.Make sure all wedding attire fits.Finalize the seating arrangements.Reconfirm your honeymoon reservations. Ensure
you have any necessary plane tickets.Start packing for your honeymoon.Call any guests who have not responded
yet.Finish all the place cards for the
reception.Review all the final details with your
photographer, videographer.Give a final head count to the caterer.Confirm the musicians
and vocalists.Delegate responsibilities to reliable
individuals on your wedding dayWrap the wedding party gifts.
One Day Before
Get a manicure or massage to relax
yourself.Stay with your family the night before,
sleep early.Review and rehearse all the details of
your participants.
The Big Day
Make sure the best man and maid of honor
sign the wedding certificate.Allow yourself plenty of time to get
dressed.Enjoy your wonderful wedding and cherish
each and every moment!!!Be sure to eat properly.Rest and relax with a good bath.Prepare for your hairdresser and makeup
appointments.