Through the hard time I have passed, I have realized one thing that being alone with every thing you want in not enough help. Being surrounded by people who are ready to help with anything they can no matter how small it is, is all that we want. Being surrounded by people who cares for you is more precious than being surrounded by riches that you can’t enjoy unless you get people who will help you to enjoy them. We can take a small example to get deeper into this discussion by assuming that you are a rich man and you have an airplane yet you don’t know how to fly it. So if you invite pilots to fly you for money and they reject, will you enjoy your riches? Definitely no!
Sometimes we are desperate and we need people to help us and by that time we desire to see we get the kind of help we need so easily. But on my opinion, the easiest way to get helped is not by being good to explain how much you have suffered by going without such help, but by being good to explain how much you need such help. Once you are successful to impress some one that his/her help is useful, some one will feel valuable by providing such help and that value s/he expects from you, is the one that will impress one to help you, and not your problems.
So it’s my hope that the above discussion will also help you to help others who want to be helped to help themselves so that they feel helped by you with the help of God who helps us to help others in need of help.