Gay men nowadays in the Philippines are very rampant everywhere. Unlike before a decade back, they were concealing their real face. They are now unleashing what they were hiding for the past decades. They are now unmasking their real identity. And thats being GAY. But some gay men are still in the closet trying to hide their feelings and not exploring of being gay. Some of them are claiming that they are still straight guy who playfully flirting with gay men. It''s only a trip of having a bored life, that''s why they were having sex with same sex?
Now, what is gay men? Who are they? What characteristics of being gay? There are so many questions to be asked about gay''s life.
- Gay men are those who feel as a woman within.
- Gay men are those who fall in love with same sex or even opposite sex.
- Gay men have sexually desire to same sex or even opposite sex
- Gay men have aesthetic attraction toward same sex.
- Gay men sexual identity which may or may not imply exclusively homosexual behavior or attraction.
In sexology, there are distinctions of sexual orientation such as bisexual, homosexual to name a few. It is now quizzical if the aforesaid sexual orientations are considered as gay. Bisexual refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction to the same sex or opposite sex. On the one hand, Homosexual refers to the romantic and/or attraction only to same sex. So, the point to ponder here - are those men regardless of sexual orientation having romantic and/or attraction with the same sex still considered as straight men?
It is now liberal, people can do now what they want to do for their lives. Bisexual or homosexual, or any sexual orientation are now consented with the society. It maybe a little bit process in accepting in our social norm even though there are some religious group or other group who objurgated of being gay. Gay men are rejected as one body to sit on chair in congress per Commission on Election decision last May 2007 election. What''s wrong being gay, anyway?....
In Philippines gay men social gathering, some straight gay men are more appealing rather than emasculate gay men. They uttered "good looking straight guy to good looking straight guy". It means they want only that kind of preferences. They wanted only having sex with straight guy having that preferences - straight guy having sex or romantic affair with straight guy? This is risible, isn''t it? How come straight guy kissing lips or sucking cock with straight guy? That is so incredible. People....people.....people.....Don''t be so goofy. Accept who you are and what you are. Love yourself.