THE 3 STAGES OF EVE
Sigmund fraud, the father of psychology, divided human personality into 3 different stages, which are all a part of a whole i.e id, ego and the super-ego. This stages of Sigmund fraud’s persanality theory can be best explained by the 3 developmental stages of women/ladies in early, middle and last stages of their reletionship experiences. In the first stage of a woman’s relationship experience acording to fraud’s theory, she would be operating on the stage of the super-ego believing life is so straight, that she will get a perfect guy who will love her and her, alone: this stage is charctarised by
1. The lady will still be a virgin
2. Naïve 3.Expecting too much from life
4. And has toal belief in the abberation called love;
Ongoing into a relationship with her first love; “Prince Charming” who most often than not is older than her, she will end up broken hearted.
then after the experience with “Prince Charming” she will be left:-
1. Disvirgin 2. Broken hearted 3. Not believing in love as she used to 4. Possing for revenge.
However,these first stage according to me, i would like to call the “angelic-stage” because of the sencerity of the girl before the relationship. however, since the angelic stage has brought her back to the “reality” of life,she now starts ooperating at what according to my researsch I call “sampling- stage” and which the authority sigmund fraud called the id-Stage.At this stage, the woman is now ready to go out with as many men as possible for the pleasure of it and also to maximise what she can gain out of the relationship rather than for love and she can even go to the extent of promising marriage to 2 or 3 men just to make them pay for what “prince charming” has made her go through, hence the reason most women will always tell anybody who cares to listen, that “men are all generally bad” because they have at one time or the other, gone through this stages. moreover, at this sampling stage no form of serious commitment should be expected from the woman and no man can ever be as complete in her assesment as “prince charming” and also in most cases, she sees “fun” as a weapon of manipulation from getting her monetary needs met and no measure of appreciation should be expected from her.
when an unlucky man meet a lady at this stage, he should kiss his “heart” good bye.
The final stage of a woman prior to marriage is the stage I tagged as, the “Deadly- Stage,” which according to sigmund can be called the “ego-stage”. At this level the lady is about to settled down. She is now in seach of “Mr Right” no more “Prince Charming” mind you, prince charming’s characteristic will play a big role in determining who she finally picks to settle down with, but just know for sure, that one man somewhere along this selection process will be left for “death”, because he will loose out and will only be told at the dying minute. Woman at this stage should never be under-esimated. for if you happen to be another “Prince Charming” who happen to be unlucky to be picked as “Mr. Right”, you should consider yourself dead for you have just signed a contract with death, because she will not hesitate to shoot you dead in public or poison you by the time you start your game.
Conclusively, these three stages of women relatioship experience, which I named or labelled; (1) Angelic stage (2)Sampling stage (3)Deadly stage; are stages that most women, if not all, have passed through, in the course of their surgeon to the land of “Marriege” or how else can men explain the phrase by most women that, “men are not to be trusted” or “men are generally bad” or the fact that we have a rampant case of single parent shoot in our society today. Those single parent-hood, shows that most women have find it very difficult to let go Prince Charming’s “Ghost” hence, this affects the child, psychologically and the community in general.