Some are created giver. Some are receiver.
I find it quite interesting that a
man is able to have
sex without love. When your man is
having an affair, it does not mean that he has found a new love, though possible. A man will marry you only if he loves you. If he is unwilling to make a commitment, then his love is nothing but a word. It may be a
good news to wives out there but be reminded that there is a major question you need to ask yourself why this
affair exists in the first place. Why did your man choose her over you when he can have legal, safe and free sex? Adventure? Excitement? Or STD? Make sure you give a thorough check on your relationship and communication. Have you 2 been too busy to spend time together? Have you been denying his requests to have sex? Your man will find it not only discouraging, he may even think that you have lost your interest in him too. If he''s trying to learn some new skills or to gain more experiences, you are a lucky girl. But don''t take things for granted. Spend some time with your man once or twice, at least, a month. Give him some erotic suprises.
On the other hand, the
receiver is hardly able to, though possible, have sex without love. When she has a good impression about a man, she will develop a certain level of good feelings and interest and when every elements exist, it means that she likes the man and is ready to accept him. A receiver will not accept anything she doesn''t like. Make sense? If your
girl is having an affair, blame yourself or be ashamed of yourself. Whether we are the giver or the receiver, lust exists in us no matter how we deny it. If you haven''t been paying attention to her needs, it''s your fault. Like it or not, she enjoys being admired be it her physical beauty, inner beauty or even things she did. She would be extremely disappointed if after spending few hours making and dressing up only to find out that you are not attracted, not having any interest in or not giving any good comment on her appearance. Many girls actually enjoy and appreciate being stared by their men even strangers because they want to know that they are still attractive and beautiful. They like to know that there are people out there who are interested in them. Start by changing your attitude before it''s too late. If you don''t mind being laughed at, you can keep the marriage.
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