It is no longer news that there are some
students,fondly called the big boys and
girls,who not only pass their courses whereas, they don''''t attend lectures,but they can have almost every thing they wanted to their favour.they can win students'''' Union Government elections with ease;influence decisions on
campus and can even mesmerise
lecturers and fellow students.
The girls among them go on expensive wears;clutch to costly mobile phones;command fat bank accounts,bulk provisions,heavy make-up,to mention but a few.In fact,every other girl on campus would wished to be like them.As an inquisitive and journalistic kind of student,i took it upon myself to find out really how the girls get things happening for them.And in the course of my investigation,i cornered as many as students for a discussion about the subject matter and at the end, i was able to extract a convincing answer
Well,the answer is as clear as day.i discovered that, the girls use what they have to get what they don''''t have.it is quite known that,trade by barter had a great vogue only many years ago but these girls still stick to its principles to stay afloat.i found out that if thery want to pass their courses,they will simply seduce their lecturers into having sex with them:trading off their their self esteem;striping and baring it all for most times,grey-haired lectureres who are old enough to be their grand fathers.if they need money,they are ready to pass the night with men who
care to pay the bill..But,come to think of it,this kind of life style is dangerous:they sleep around with many men,even with those they don''''t really know anything about.i hope,every sane,good thinking person should ask this question,do these girls care at all about theirselves? or how can a
Girl jumb into a car and drove off with a
man she don''''t even know his first name?
The truth is that,these girls encounter all sorts.from my enquiries, i was made to understand that not only that these girls are called names but,there is no dignity remaining in them.most times,those men that sleep with them,perform occultic rituals by making love to them and this,has serious repercussions on the girls'''' lives.The girls live on antibiotics,contraceptives,frequent abortions and all these have multiple consequences with links to adverse reproduction health and HIV related outcomes.Quite often,they are gang raped in party halls;beating up;denied of the money promised them or even got killed.
For the boys,i found out that,they can coerce fellow students,even lecturers into submission-thanks to their involvement in some cult groups.They are always demanding for money from parents and relatives under false pretence that the money would be used to facilitate their academic pursuits.Rather,the money will be best used to fuel their cult activities;to care for their many girl friends;larvished on parties,etc.Their living apartments are heavily furnished,to the extent that it can be easily passed for a rich businessman''''s abode with loud sound blaring pop music from dawn to dusk.They are so involved in social activities, that they have no time to themselves.The only vision they pursue is the bottles of beer to consume;sticks of cigarettes and wraps of marijuana and cocaine to puff; the latest fast food joint in town to visit;the hottest babe on campus to catch.To them,man''''s greatest need is for relaxation,ease,pleasure,freedom from pressure to simply live and breathe,eat and love.They do not hold the view that man''''s most basic need is for meaning,for significance and purpose in life.
My investigation revealed that,many of these big boys and girls graduate with wonderful grades due to their contacts,in and out of the campus but,the real deal comes life after campus when they will be released to the labour world.A
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