Indian
concept of
sexual life is unique and it differs totally from the western views. We bring up our girl children, fostering in them,
sex before marriage as a sin and something which was forbidden and to be forbidden for all girls. More than 98% of
girls are curbing their sexual appetite before their marriage in India and if they loose their control and accidentally succumb to sexual relation with a male, they either will commit suicide or suffer a lot of mental stress and strain and become a depressed one. It is true that as the country is being developed, to certain extend, the trend is also changed considerably.
pre marriage sex of girls is widely discussed in our society. Now days, there are many ways to indulge in safe intercourse and prevent pregnancy. Girls can have the paramount experience of sexual orgasm, without fear due to the advent of condoms, without anybodies help. Some of the girls are dared enough to say that they are not loosing their chastity,while they engage in inter course using condoms, as the genital organ of the male partner is not directly in touch with their secret part. They compare this type of inter course with masturbation of westerners using the artificial materials available in the market. They are of the view that they do not loose their virginity. Some modern girls are arguing for premarital sex, saying that the chastity is only a false belief and concept, which the society maintained in an undeveloped era. During that period there were no safe and effective methods to prevent the pregnancy. So the concept was inevitable to prevent unmarried mothers and unwanted children. Now the society developed a lot. Every body knows every thing. Girls were capable to take care of their safety. Then why should we prevent pre
marital sex or free sex? Now days the premarital and extra marital sex, are rampant in educated society. The ladies and gents are going beyond the limits when they are away from their own state or country. They enjoy sex secretly. All are still afraid of the loss of chastity especially if there is a situation that it will be known to the public. If it is done confidentially no one cares about it. Still there is a fear and that is why women are not arguing publically for free sex. The question is that, the factl being above, is it advisable to encourage pre marital sex in India? An affirmative answer shall not get from anybody easily. It is not due to a right contemplation about the consequences but due to the fear that those who respond affirmatively will be viewed as indecent personality, by the society. By preventing our children from this do we prevent them from enjoying sex as they like in the early stages? It is true that they are loosing their enjoyment. But the existence of the society in the Indian scenario, shall be shattered if we encourage the premarital sex.All of a sudden we cannot take away the barricade and provide unrestricted freedom.Chastisty may be a concept or a false belief. I think that as years go by the generation will automatically change and adopt the system according to the change in the society. Gradually we do accept the pre marital sex and even free sex.Till then we may continue with the present system.
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