Various emotional complexes clouded our vision.
Looking at the world around, with a combination of awe, fear, a sense of deprivation, shame and the desire to trade places with the “successful-looking” people we met.
As a child, one used to think that being older would put an end to once inadequacy. All that acceptance, admiration and luxurious lifestyle to go with it must be great to have, I believed. Later, when growing up, we were confident that being married to Mr. /Mrs. Right was “the solution”. And becoming mum/dad would heighten that ecstasy. We thought, “Then and only then will I be loved to the core of my being. And I will be this new, transformed being – limbs and nerves, blood and soul of love. Oh! I can’t wait….”
One feel for the first time ever, one is experiencing the love one has thirsted for all life. One feels fully and unconditionally accepted, understood and appreciated for whatever little one is. We adjust as love is emanating. But reality turns out to be the contrary. Gradually we start taking for granted the one who is supposed to be the dearest one for us. One stop bothering about how the other would feel. At the beginning we think we are
living together but it ended up with living under the same roof but separately. No more love and joy is shower; there is no sense of acceptance in any situation. Then one day come when we realized we are only two
strangers who are making each others life a nightmare, where we in fact are only sharing the same apartment. It is so painful………
Therefore, we decided to part separately in
quest of someone else with hope that he/she would be “my
true love.” One feels helpless and desperately waiting, looking at every passer-by, and hoping for something called “love” to fall off. One may meet someone where one feel that he/she is all that exist for us; someone for whom one can die for; where one go to bed and wake up with only him/her in once heart and mind, whispering his/her name just for the sake of pleasing oneself. Then one
starts to believe that “yes this is the true one, the one meant for me”. One starts thinking that one should start living together, to share our love and affection. Then the same scene repeat again; the love and care vanish and we become two strangers again until we get separated. We then try again and just keep trying, in quest for true love.
We people are always in pursuit of true love; we don’t realize that no one is
perfect; true love mean perfection and only GOD is perfect. To enjoy love one should accept each other as they are without complaining, trying to see the positive side in his/her partner.
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