SEVEN WAYS TO APPROACH ILL- WILL
(i) If you have hurt somebody, ask forgiveness.
(ii) To
create goodwill, nurse a man’s ego by giving him his feeling of importance.
(iii) The other person wants you to know and feel that you give him the recognition he seeks. Your manner and tone of voice helps convey it.
(iv) Someone bears you ill-
will? Show that you bear only good will towards him. Prove it.
how? Pick up the good points in that person and appreciate them, you’ll have made a friend.
(v) Rather reconcile an enemy than vanquish him. Reconciliation deprives him of his ill-will. It can take place at a game or any recreation time.
(vi) Talk out your grouse, your misunderstanding, dig out the fact, clear the mist, and be loved.
(vii) To be somebody, make love bring out the goodness in you. Love can only beget love, while hatred begets hatred.