Escreva sua tradução aqui..EDUCATION FOR KIDS: DIFFICULT TASK Why: Because of Sonia Oliveira Silva
Who says that
educating a child in this day and age is a task of
Hercules. There are many joys, but they are many and the conflicts
aflições to assume the roles of father and mother that the couple often
enter into panic. Many questions through the minds of parents, feel
insecure, disorientated and have not yet defined their roles as
educators. The very structure of the family have undergone
radical changes, especially as regards the distribution of tasks for
the man to the woman and the children. One of the major problems,
clearly visible in the creation and education of the
children is the
imposition of limits. Imposing limits. Have authority without being
authoritarian. The authority becomes an expression of love and
affection when exercised with balance. It transmits security. The child
does not love most
parents because it gives complete freedom, because
you can do what you want. She sense the lack of structure and security,
is feeling less protected for life. It is
important parents realize
that the child needs freedom, but that alone is unable to assess what
is better or worse for herself. Educating is frustrating. Each new
stage of development of the children is a new challenge to the
creativity and flexibility of the parents, as is required of them
changes in standards of conduct and new ways to address the children in
their new needs. It is of vital importance parents give children
the
security of your love. It is more important to quality of the
affection that the amount of time available to children. The working
life of parents nowadays, despite their high demands, can be adjusted
to a particular life balanced. It is necessary to give time to
children, for children. Many
adults burden on the agenda of the
children as if they were small executives. Time for everything: school,
ballet, soccer, foreign language, music, too many lessons, other social
activities, etc.. And forget that they are, still, only children. They
need to play, share, have friends, and thus develop the socialization,
our lives. Parents need to convey values to their children.
Values such as respect to the next, ethics, citizenship, solidarity,
respect for the environment, self-esteem, which will lead children to
be adults quiet, carinhosos, flexible; adults who know solve problems
and are open to dialogue and to change the world. The paths of
our development staff are difficult and tortuous, we find many
frustrations, disappointments and adversity, but when difficulties
arise above the joys and develop our self confidence. There are no
perfect parents, or children perfect. Educating, are up with many
errors and many successes. The important thing is to give some
examples, which can only be achieved with educating the heart.
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