In every indiviual''s life there have been moments when you spent many hours talking to yourself,staring at the sparkling
stars,cribbing about loneliness and longing for a companion.
Well I can''t say that I have plenty of experiences to share.But I am a sharp observer.
Before discussing the art of establishing a good
relationship let me just brief you with something more essential................................... ...................................................
DIFFERENCE B/W THE E.Q OF A BOY AND A GIRLIt is a fact that women are emotionally stronger but ironically they are more expressive with their emotions.A man doesnot exhibit his emotions that evidently and it is here where his weakness lies.
A boy falls in love with a girl who is less known to him.The sequale that runs in his mind is
love interest-familarity-friend-strong relationship i.e first the cupid would strike a male and then he would make a move to get closer to the girl.Whereas in case of females everything is on the opposite side of the coin.She falls in love with that person who knows her and is known to her completely.It is after familarity and friendship that the cupid strikes the female.
In the conservative set-up like that in India,men want introvert girlfriends and women long for extrovert companies.Rather turning things more simpler opposites attract each other.
For boys it is rather a thing to feel proud about, their love interests are known to couple of close friends but girls are more reserved to disclose it to everyone.
Loyalty is
definitely the priority in any relationship.But with girls loyalty holds more importance and that is the reason why this trait ends up irritating the boys.Girls actually feel insecure.So they start quantifying the contributions of each into the relationship and find themselves far more dedicated.
SIMILARITIES B/W THE TWO
It is an unarguable fact that both the sexes want to pursue a relationship.
Females are so much filled by affection that she feels like sprinkling a few drops of love and care on some one special and definitely wants compassion in return.Every woman wants to feel delicate in the arms of the beloved.
Males have a hidden personality deep within them which surfaces only before that special person.It is only before her that his weaker points gain visibility.Weaker points here I am referring to the discouraged,emotionally charged struggler who wants his morale to be boosted up.
HOW DO I TELL HER?
It is easier for the boy to express his feelings for the girl because the girl is more like a pearl preferring to be hidden in her oyster.Boys are definitely more daring and are less haunted by the danger of being rejected.
The biggest mistake that they make are with their pick-up lines.Actions speak more than the words.Instead of approaching her for friendship it would be better if you prove your worth to her through some helpful deeds.
Don''t loose your patience because haste is waste.Give her some time to adapt and adjust to your presence around.
And then start giving her the hints that you really like her a lot and that too indirectly.
You should first learn the art of asthetically asking out the girl and for that I recommend a few romantic novels and bollywood movies.Prove yourself to be the perfect prince charming for her.But be careful because there is a delicate line b/w artificiality and genuine love.
HOW DO I TELL HIM?
Well this is the toughest job.It is difficult for the girl to break all the barriers around her and approach the guy.
Before approaching just make sure he deserves you and he is completely merismerised by your loving and caring nature.You should be able to gain his confidence that he confides you for all the secrets of his lifconsiders you as his best advisor.
It is then that you should make a move and tell him directly about how you feel for him.
Well hope this article would reduce the agony and complexity of your life.
According to Newton,''to every action there is equal and opposite reaction''.So I would sincerely pray that you recieve even more love and compassion than you give.