"The only thing you can change in this world is yourself, and that can change the world".
This article is relevant for both man and woman! This article is for people to whom their lives is really important , for the ones who truly want to be happy! Most people just exist instead of living their lives :
Wake up every morning, feed the children, worry about money, go to work, come back home, do the laundry, cook dinner, worry about the children, worry about money some more, watch television or surf the internet, eat some more, worry some more and go to sleep- in the morning you wake up again and so forth three hundred and sixty five days a year. When only doing endless chores, life routine and playing it safe becomes our single goal, this living has no designation - only blind acceptance to a life with no challenges, but only the routine.
The world is changing and moving quickly and as a response people are fighting to "hang on". Phony goals like making money, being accepted, getting others approval, and collecting more possessions is taking over our lives. The people stuck in past memories ("it was so wonderful back then") are unhappy in the present. Too many people arrive every day to their work place and function like robots for the money, continuing their jobs for economic security. They have given up passion, hope, little pleasures, optimism and motivation for money and luxuries, and before they know it a world that is cold and indifferent has been created: they must be responsible, pay the bills and take care of the children.
What happens to the individual in this big society? He''s trying to please many people like: his boss or his clients but not himself. Even his home is determined by his workplace. He''s doing his every day chores and gave up on his personal dreams, his life essence. Maybe someone from the side would ask "how come he is not happy in his fancy office with his big salary, and great family?"
Deep inside the successful man hears an inner voice begging him to stop. and another voice that challenge it: is it really that important to fulfill myself, to feel enthusiasm and happiness?
Isn''t it more important to live a comfortable stable life? And he goes on with his routine due to his commitments or is due to his fear to make a change in his life. He''s afraid that maybe he''s not talented enough to do something else and succeed. His self confidant is not what it used to be when he started his professional path. His wife senses she''s loosing a part of him each day as if he was becoming a robot...inside often that man declares: "I don''t like a big part of my life. I hate myself for not being able to change it. I hate my career. I hate the place I live in. I hate what I do. I failed big time and now I''m stuck with this successful man- image. Trapped in a life I hate, with emptiness filling me every day, living a life of pretention and fraud. when I look at the mirror I''m not proud . I sold myself , I did what others expected of me and it''s getting harder and harder every day - living with a mask!". And so the man keeps wasting his life every day, although he''s aware you only live once. The energy is wasting and he''s tired of being tired, he''s tired from not feeling proud of what he does or who he is- all out of personal choice! He''s aware that something is wrong with his life and does nothing, because coping with it is hard. A man dedicates time every day for his personal appearance and a lot of other superficial things, but dedicates no time for his inner feeling- what really matters. Young couples dedicate months in planning their weddings, but no thought of how their marriage will be, and hit the road without really planning their lives. A man that''s being controlled all the time by debts, worries, and anxiety but makes no change, his life is leading him nowhere. A man ignoring himself for long time brings destruction on his life and he'