Reading the replies given by the writer ICAM TIBA, in the interview provided to the site Psicologia Brazil, you can see the
importance that it attaches to the role of women in the current conduct of the family, as well as their socio-educational structure. Starts saying that, still,
parents tend to differentiate the way to educate their
children of different genders, giving them even models to follow, both for females as for males. Emphasized, however, that now may be regarded as disqualified from the Freudian view that the child is always better reflects and is related with the mother and, in contrast, the daughter with the father. Justify its position when it highlights the great army of strong women exist today, which arose due to increased male vulnerability, a fact that has made the children feel and become only the children of women. For this, he believes that is happening is because the prevailing machismo discredit the old, thereby increasing the power of women. Adding it all, you can not forget that endures what he called the removal of the human being, weaning that this never happens naturally, because the emotional bonds always remain, the fault of their own mothers, who confuse affection with material assistance, " do things "to please their children and offer them unconditional protection, no matter where they age. When asked about the already famous "crisis of adolescence" replied stating that aborrecentes are parents of young people and those not, as commonly, it has been recommended. Believes that parents today have not been able to understand that although they have been excellent up to educators of children, have been bad to guide adolescents, because they do not know how to act against the process of self-affirmation of their children. For the author, this is the main cause of conflicts, as young people are quietly accepting the speeches made by their parents, since they are not knowing how to follow the evolution of their personalities. As a result, exhibit behaviors that vary in resistance to fear from their own parents, especially in situations where young people in search of their independence, want to live their own life, it starts looking for, in any form whatsoever. According to TIBA, it could be avoided if, from infancy, children were educated in such a way that always become responsible for their actions, especially in life outside the home, and never not counting on the support of parents with respect the mistakes I made. Uses the term bread to clarify what happened with the paternal figure, in the present. For the author, these breads are nothing more than those parents missing, missing, which is much favored the advancement of the control of households by the mothers. The reasons for this gap, considering, vary widely, especially by passing alcohol, drugs, separation or abandonment of the home, besides the increase of illegal acts and transgressions. In these situations, nothing more remains to mothers who seek self-overcoming, "show its strength", as in situations of crisis, these people are "strong and able to overcome them." Also wishes to stress that "the children meet the mother who is respected and that, ever, abide orders who are not required. Finally, it reaffirms that only when women take their forces, demanding and requiring responsibility and making the children bear the consequences of their actions is that the family could begin to reorganize and return the paper it is due, the the main core of training sociocultural.