Orgasm is the peak of sexual arousal process that happens to someone. We have an orgasm, a person will feel a unique sensation
that is difficult to describe. Physiologically at least two neurotransmitters released from the central nervous system that makes people have felt a peculiar
experience orgasm.
First, the endorphins, these substances have analgesic properties that is able to eliminate fatigue and aches in the body so that people who experience orgasm, after waking from sleep will feel fitter body.
Second, serotonin, this substance has properties such as antidepressant, which is a type of substance which if given to one person would result in reduced or eliminated the suspense in psychology, so he will be more comfortable and relaxed .
If this process went without a hitch, orgasm on the first night is likely to be felt. The barriers are usually there on the first night is, a physical barrier, in this case related to the narrowness of the vaginal introitus because there are no previous sexual experience and not infrequently coupled with the
existence of an intact Hymen.
These obstacles can be overcome with patience. Additional lubricant jelly even topical anesthesia is often very useful to facilitate the penetration and reduce the pain sometimes felt. The second obstacle is the psychological barrier. Anxiety, worry, fear, or expectations that are unrealistic as to the existence of blood on the first night, should have such feelings need not be there, and when it is already there the first night lewatilah as natural as possible, without ketergesah-gesahan.
For example you can start with a walk together or just looking to eat outside, then continue with the full warmth of the atmosphere to return to the room and the two become one flesh. Environmental sometimes also be inhibiting factors, such as there are many guests who visit the house where the first night will be done, of course this is very disturbing privacy.
Honeymoon, outside the city can be a good solution of this condition. Another obstacle could sometimes reduce a person's ability to achieve orgasm on the first night was a spiritual barrier, in this spiritual understanding is not correct, for example consider sex as a sin.
Such concepts must be updated, sex within marriage is not a sin, but grace through which the Creator gives exquisite pleasure and opportunity to become parents through the process of procreation is doing. Through the Creator of sex also teaches how a husband and wife to build a relationship that will deepen their love relationship.