Love was not only a matter of feeling. When the flame of romance burning, every element in your body is reacting. Experts said the impact of "opiate" of this love in our lives, and their "side effects".
When the liver is being tied to a person.
Most of our attention centered her, as if he is the most important things in life we. We always make his presence happy and cheerful. Various other things in life as any less meaningful when we're in love.
Dr.Helen Fisher, professor of anthropology at Rutgers University said, the feelings of being in love is similar to the kind of drunk drug cocaine. Cause, when we're in love, the brain produces the hormone dopamine, serotonin, endorphins and oxytocin in the number very much. The same reaction occurs when a person injecting himself with cocaine. This hormone makes us very happy and cheerful, the stronger the love we feel, the dopamine flowing even more. "This euphoria will continue as long as the feeling of love is still there", explained Dr.Fisher, who also wrote the book "Why We Love and Why Him? Why Her? "For decades, he conducted research on the relationship between human love, marriage, and its relation to brain activity. Together with other experts, he tried to understand why the impact of feelings of love that we feel can be so fierce. Not only affects, but also can change our behavior and thought patterns. Either be positive or negative otherwise.
Need Mind And Consciousness
It has been said, love is blind, however, experts believe otherwise.It turned out that in terms of scientific, love is considered very common and involves awareness. "Love is a healthy balance between emotion, reason, and spiritual," says psychologist Winarini Wilman, Psi., Explain. Furthermore Winarini say, love the sound generally contain elements of passion (ketetarikan physical and sexual), intimacy (emotional closeness), commitment (responsibility), and spiritual (belief that God disposes of our lives). All these elements must be balanced. According Winarini, healthy love relationships would not, if the character is so impulsive and do not care about the social responsibility of moral dam. "For example, to love people who already have a partner or doing things forbidden religion", he added. To maintain the balance of love in life, we need to further maximize the positive side, so that the mind is not solely focused on those we love. In terms of medical, optimizing the positive elements of love can help reduce the effect of "side" that could arise due to the rate of the central dopamine flowing. As such, the emergence of a sense of fear, worry, anxiety, until the emotion becomes unstable.
If able to manage feelings of love are true, we will feel the benefit of the following four:
* More Excited
Time being in love, it seems more eager to do anything.
* More Creative Thinking
Research conducted by three psychologists from the University of Amsterdam found that feelings of love can lead us to think more creatively and analitis.Menurut the researchers (Jens Forster, Kai Epstude, and Amina Ozelsel), while being in love, we think in a more different from usual. We would have a lot of consideration and hope, and more focus on the main depan.Ter at the thought of something related to the couple.
* Look More Attractive
People who are in love, is often practically looks more radiant than usual. He was so smiling, friendly, and exudes an aura of poisitif. It is influenced by certain hormones membeludaknya rate, and the other due to their physical appearance than previous days.
* Healthier Heart
Why do we always beat when talking with the opposite sex do you prefer?. This is because the brain sends a message that beating heart of the 3 times faster than normal. In addition, increased blood supply to the body, causing a sensation was intoxicated. It is obvious Dr. John Marsden Ph.D., psychologist and lecturer at London's Institute of Psychiatry. In people with hypertension problems, fall in love will make his blood pressure down. This is expressed Brooks Gump, professor of psychology at State University of Newyork at Oswego, after observing 120 hypertensive volunteers for 6 days. Gump monitor their blood pressure when you're with a partner. Other research support comes from the National Institute of Medicine. The experts there to make observations in the U.S., Japan and Scandinavian countries. The result so, they are always alone and do not live a loving environment, at risk of dying sooner than those who have good communication patterns with a partner. "Presumably, the positive relationship that plays a role in protecting themselves from the risk of heart disease," said Gump.