Effort of Appreciations or Blessings
When you are happy, you feel like expressing your pleasure. If someone has done a favor to you either materially, or physically, supported mentally, charged with spirits, emotions that build enthusiasm, you bless the person who has done favor or has been instrumental in getting the favor for you. And at the same time one tends to curse, or feel indifferent or develop apathy towards the person who does not do a favor or an expected performance of favor or kind of a favor. Every moment may not be full of appreciation or blessings; rather every blessing or expression of pleasure is followed by aggrieved feelings. The feelings of frustration, hopes belied, love not found, warmth or affection not noticed- as a result feeling of hurt or frustration do creep in. Great are those, who do not develop feeling of restlessness. Every body does this. Only thing is –what do we do in such state of mind. Many people tend to take conscious steps, saying that they are restless, take deep breath, and take cold glass of water. Some seek solace, and sit in away from active place and ponder over. Watch themselves calmly. Some tend to build on restlessness and vomit their anger, or feelings on any subject what so ever comes forth.
Some are watching themselves carefully and are capable to watch their words, deeds. This is the time, when either you sit on a horse or take a journey within you. See the world inside you. The ones who take horse, and ride on feelings and either suppress the same or glorify their high headedness tend to take little long in recovery from pitfalls happening inside. Vibrations inside flow out and if the same are positive, will be coupled with blessings all the way. If the same are negative, will be coupled with curse, hatred, hurting when finds avenues to steam out. Both are natural phenomenon. One can only take precautions by understanding the inside climate of the other person and give a soothing effect so that anger, feeling of curse, sin, hurt get channelised. Those who perform this – normally are able to convert curse into blessings. So is the wonderful effect of an effort. This mechanism is worth understanding and consciously to be practiced. By ashwani