Relationships .......husband, child , in laws or parents all all so vital in our lives.But quite often we take them for granted
and overlook small gestures which can rekindle that spark .
Marraige ...........its often pushed back after the wonder years .other priorities take over and we ignore the happy days .Kids , their upbringing, their education , house needs all overwhelms and we oft forget our responsibilty of being the perfect spouse.Those little gestures of a warm hug, holding hands sitting out after dinner , speaking , listening all help in perking up love life.As a rule arguements should never be taken to bed.resolve it all before going to sleep.
Total commitment , giving compliments, apprecaition of deeds done ,doing household chores together.All it needs is understanding and maturity and a bit of effort of doing things what one looks forwrad to.
Children .........Months babe need all your time and patience .They need attention and want to play most of their waking time.playing with them can be both fun and exhausting .Creating new games and keeping them occupied is a herculean task in itself .Yet its that joy one gets overlooks all odds.answering their doubts as they grow up ...........educationg them by giving correct information lest they learn wrong things .
Appreciating their achievments encouraging them to explore and invent and bringing out their talent making them bright young adults.Growing years can be very demanding .dealing with them firmly yet being there as good friend to them , guiding them and gaurding them from evils of the world around can be an arduos task .Yet staying connected and not loosing composure ourselves bridges taht generation gap bringing children closer to us.
In laws are oft looked upon as villains .............a younf wife sets her foot into the new house hold with all the inhibitios and mind set of bad in laws.A lot of expectations and demands makes life difficult.Trying to adapt to the new environs , new people, is very taxing.Its very essentail to keep mind open and stop being judgemental.Spending time alone with in laws, cooking a favourite meal for them, going out with them, sharing house hold work .all melts away the blues .A new member in the house should bring in cheer not sadness.Again a sincere effort is needed to make things happen and chnage this age old mind set of wicked in laws.
Adapting , accepting changes, sharing and bonding can make life so much more happier. In these days of nuclear families the family bonding is almost forgotten.We look for happiness elsewhere...........its within us if we reflect upon.Staying connected with family is the best stress buster and cant be bought with any amount of money.Lets strive to cherish our wonderful relationships.
Happy living !!!!!
Anu