Non-resident married life:
There have been many
complaints
in the
non-resident married life from the time of the current state of the presence of clouds and cloud cover over the family, which prevents the visibility of its members Vtaatsa distance between spouses and even children, and is not intended to widen the spatial here where they live in a single house, but the intended breadth of the psychological distance and the presence of
alienation and loss of identity.
This alienation between the spouses means the rejection of each other with life and isolation from reality and Tqoukah about the same and did not want to interact with the rest of the family, find a husband and wife in the world in a different world, do not share common goals and dreams.
My life partner, that family life does not appeal to him, and his thoughts and beliefs have no value and would not affect those who it.
This alienation is alien to the Arab family known about the interrelationship between its members, the most important distinction was the family group unit, but now many members of the families live under one roof, but the father is seeking day and night to raise money, and the wife busy on her children, and children each and every one of them in the way different from the rest of our brothers .. The case of separation and disintegration.
This marital misery is a manifestation of imbalance in the values of society.
The family in contemporary life crisis sour cream and the volatility of marital happiness to misery is calm and stability to the anxiety and tension and conflicts that eventually lead to the failure of marriage, separation and divorce, or may give his wife for fear of carrying the title of absolute and Idthdha displaced community and their children, and prefers to continue in the married life with the husband does not feel strange about him of any emotion or feelings.
It is natural that there are differences in a family is dealing with it, but either the wisdom and clarity and candor of the spouses have made a quiet married life on the dock and beach safety, or that the relationship between spouses free of the psychological understanding and rapprochement Vtaatsaad the problem of small and grow and become a spark could explode in any moment of danger threatening the house.
One of the factors causing the failure of married life, financial problems .. Some may say that the problem facing the article most people, that's true, but in some cases, the wife complains of stingy husband, Stinginess as reprehensible as it might be rich or poor, but in the end, and B can not be cured, and life with husband Niggardly unbearable hell and recall Specifically, without the husband's wife on the grounds that he is responsible for expenditure on the family, even if his wife was working.
Executed and sexual incompatibility are also strong reasons for the failure of marital life, and here is the responsibility of both partners, husband and wife.
Among other reasons for the impossibility of entering the quiet family life of parents in the lives of the spouses, or bad in the role of the Friends of the corruption of this life, and compliance with the husband or wife .. And friends is often a cause of divorce, but this does not diminish the importance of a friendship in the lives of both husband and wife and the presence of friends, here is the criterion how to choose a friend who provides Saduq sacrifice and play a role in the success of family life for his friend.
Friends and talk about us to discuss the importance of a friendship between the spouses and frankly, this openness is that will support the trust between them and create mutual understanding and friendliness, safety, and these are the foundations of a happy marriage.
In contrast, up married life between any couple to the point of no return and the parties find a solution to only have a divorce .. And divorce, a serious problem threatening to escalate, as a society are frightening rates, and this phenomenon, forwarded to the consideration of the Arab societies and Western societies suffer as well.
The West as well.