Husbands, why no to V-day…Post marriage Love
It is a known proverb to all of us, love fly away after marriage. In our country, India, we say marriage is a sacred institution and we learn love from here. We take various oaths in front of sacred fire during marriage and priests keep on reminding us all the God and Goddess during the rituals to bless us with love and peace forever. Does it really happen that we learn love from marriage institution? If not, then is it doddle to find the reason behind it? It is indeed very doleful for a couple to get deviated from the real purpose of marriage. Now, the question arises what fact diverts a married couple? What are the factors converting never dieing, eternal love to a tiring, unending, compulsive monotony? Why the Cinderella’s fairy dream gets shattered and her prince charming diverges from the oath he takes before marriage?
Wife is a knife…she can cut all problem string
We are here to divulge the marriages happen to Indian society. Our society, which is still highly dominated by male chauvinist, demands a wife to be like stereotype, typically obedient to husband and his family, and nowadays a complete blend of traditionalism and modernism.
Oh no! Modernism is not meant for raising head for her own right , it is only just to represent her to the social circle as a mute, dumb show puppet. Though few women are in the notion that the so-called feministic society is ruling over. But the statistics falls down while the ratio still shows that majority are in the same position as before. Today’s so called broad minded; modern hubbies can not accept her wife to be more independent than their predetermined pro forma made in his own mind book. He becomes too much prejudiced when the point of his wife’s do’s and don’ts arises. It is very much predetermined perceptual fact that one lady after marriage has to have all-in-one quality in terms of household task. She is not allowed to say ‘no’ to anybody and be not reluctant to anything. It is quite assumed that she has to be a perfectionist. In a nutshell, there is no place for a roustabout in a marriage factory.
Momma’s Boy….Momma, you’re the best
When the matter comes in terms of his own close, consanguineous relationship, then he gets desperately melodramatic to show his hubris about it. He keeps on insisting his counterpart that it is her kismet to get such a understanding and compromising relationships in her life. He keeps his eyes always shut about this part and there is no two-way mirror method to see the shortfall of his own side. So, there only exists one term after marriage, i.e. ‘give and take’ at the end of the day. The life becomes pathetically ‘do or die’ type for a Cindrella in her real life fairy tales. That’s why, there is no Utopia. That’s why; all the Rapunzels have cut their hair of liaison for lifting their princes to their very own treasured place of heart. As a matter of fact, they have stopped becoming euphoric about the truth that V-day has any special significance in love relationship. To some, it is just fantasy and for few it is just insanity among the youth. But basically, it is only to hide their very own inner-desire to consolate by out-bursting such a remark. To hubby dear…get bolder and be justified
If this article is read by any husband who is indeed very confused about his wife’s mood swing,, then to inform them, in place of fetching a “diamond ring’ or “platinum pendant’ to conquer her heart, one red rose and your support and love can make the purpose solved and can do the miracle in your life. Because it is very easy to woo a woman by gifting her costly accessories while she is not married, but while she is your wife then she desires more than a materialistic gift and that is your love, care and support. Though we all are aware of the fact, when 4hours becomes 24hours, your life faces a sudden topsy-turvy situation. So, stay happy and take sensible step towards your better half. Make your wife your dream and most desired Valentine. Because if you want to get diamond out of a stone then you have to give true effort to it.