Finding a man or women that you think you will be happy with in a relationship is h ard enough as it is. What makes the situation even worst, is if you are doing or saying things that are working in the opposite direction of how you actually want things to be. Very often people go on making terrible mistakes when they first meet a person they are attracted to.
So if you are trying hard ever to land yourself with the Right man or women, instead of doing all the wrong things, realise what you are doing wrong and then stop. Know some common mistakes you might make when it comes to approaching a man or women.
As much as you`d like to believe that they work, cheesy pick up lines seldom get you the one of your choice. If you approach someone you like and startto recite some popular dialogue you might have seen in a movie or quote a famous poet, you are only going to look like a fool and not someone he or she would like to be with. Yes i t is one thing if you choose a quote wisely, but if you dont know how to do it with charm, then dont use a pick-up line period. Besides, pick-up lines are a very lame way of approaching someone, so come up with someone original. That will leave an impact of your personality on the opposite person.
DONT BE UNCOUTH
Another thing you need to avoid at any costs when you meet someone new that you are attracted to, is your etiquette. If you meet this person at a dinner or at a party try not to burp in their face or pick your teeth, you can do all of this once you are in a relationship and things are in the comfortable zone. But when you first approach someone you dont want them to catch you picking your teeth or worse your nose. When it comes to women shivellry is what turns them on!
Just because you met a man or women you connect well with, does not mean that you`ve formed an instant emotional bond. Dont get over emotional and confess your love within an hour of meeting him or her. You might think you are in love but the person across you might think you`re crazy and run.
ALL ABOUT ME
Another common mistake that many people make when they meet someone, is that they focus all their energy on selling themselves rather than showing interest in the potential man or women. This happens because you are so attracted tot his person that you would spend all your time talking about yourself, just to impress him or her. But you need to understand that the trick lies in getting them to reveal things about themselves, so that you know better how to get to them and understand what makes him or her tick. And that makes the two of you click faster.
Alcohol can give you the confidence required to approach the person you want. However the bottle can also work against you. Excessive consumption of alcohol can prompt you to do ans say some dumb things. So instead of behaving like some love sick puppy on alcohol, show that you can be in control during happy hour and not end the evening throwing up in the toilet.
If you are the kind who swears a lot when you speak or use inappropriate language, try to come across as a civilised human being when you first approach someone you have the Hots for. Once they get to know you and understand you better, they might be able to see past your language. However, if every second sentence you speak has a bad word in it, you might land up turning your potential interest off more than on.
For some reason when certain people meet a man or women they feeel they need to talk about how many men or women they have conquered in the past. While you may believe that you are a super cool for having such a vast and interesting love history, the person you are trying so hard to impress would probably think you are a player and treat you like one. So think twice!
Keep the above in mind and if you are guilty of any, just change your habits and go find some love. All the very best!