People across the globe has problems that seem too big to handle. Many people are struggling day after day wondering how their lives will end up or how their problems can be solved. Many people get attached to alcohol, smoking, drugs... as a substitute of problem solving. Beating up on others and having outbursts of anger is not a healthy way of dealing with problems that seem too much to bear. Innocent people get hurt from people who are having problems and the ones with the problems, are blinded to others feelings because of the state that they are in. Some people never had the chance to share about their past, childhood or some major experience that keeps eating away their emotions. Sometimes they try to give hints and we need to take these hints to a more serious level. We have to understand that some things are difficult to talk about and to try and find someone to talk to is really a challenge.Though we have people around us that shares their hearts and utmost feelings, those with inner problems are trying to get attention and motivation to bring out that which has kept them a prisoner from as long as they can remember. They are scared of talking because they don´t want to be judged or laughed at.
Some people would prefer to speak to a total stranger than his best friend. People who really have problems, don´t want to share them with people they know because sometimes, the people they trust will think different and may even get a wrong impression. Questions keep coming up like; Why didn´t you tell me before? or Why did you choose now to tell me? That is not helping. When a person is full inside with something that is eating him away, he will burst one day and tell someone. When someone comes to you to share about something, don´t ask stupid questions, instead listen and don´t be fully silent while he speaks. If you are the one with the problem, just let your heart be known and once you get the chance to talk about your struggles, don´t save any detail. Speak out all that you have within. Some people just need someone to talk to. Keep your eyes open. You will have one experience or the other.