Many times we come across in life married partner who consider their marriage as a compromise only. For them it is their job, household duties, children, other tasks who gain priority and their life partner is generally ignored. Initially when two people get married then they pay attention towards each other and show love and caring attitude. But once the time passes and responsibilities double then they get occupied with their daily routine and their partner become their second, third or donor which number priority. Many marriages end for divorce also.
If you want to save your marriage and know that you are ignoring your partner or vice versa. Then please give a second thought for this. Never try to skip out of the marriage. Sit and try to follow the following steps and advices which we are giving you through this article. Hopefully you will go through this and find it suitable.
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1. Always express your love towards your partner. If not verbally then at least send him/her a text love message. Believe us this will do wonder.
2. Always help your partner in his chores. Do not think that a woman has to do all the household activities. If this is the case then always help your partner and share some chores with her/him. In this way the work will finish fast and this way you can enjoy more time with each other.
3. Do not ignore each other’s hard work. If one partner is returning home after doing heavy work or other has done something creative then please try to appreciate this. This will make him/her feel that you really love each other
4.Instead of making sad and gloomy face always try to laugh with each other. In fact you both can watch some funny movie together.
5. Always make future plans together. Make some targets and achievements. Always share expensed and income with each other. Sharing is the best thing that one can do with other. If two partners do together than nothing can be more important than this.
6. If one has hurt other then do not hesitate saying "Sorry". Try to be the one to say this even if it is your partner's mistake also.
7. Do not let any tension, work, any third thing come inside your bedroom. You bedroom should be the place of love where only you and your partner share quality time. This should be clean and tidy. No television, music system, working accessories should be there.
8. Try to be honest with your partner as much as possible.
9. Try to take some time to go outside and spend time with each other. If not possible to go outside then can take out time in other activities also like worshiping together, watching television together, making breakfast together, having candlelight dinner together.
10. Do not ever nag or criticize your partner in front of others especially if they are your parents or friends. This may lower self esteem and one feels bad. Be constructive in giving opinions but that should be in a polite way but never in a harsh way.
This way we wrote about few points that one can incorporate in his life for making his marriage more successful and lasting. We will be writing more points in my next article. Till then involve these points and see the changes in your life.